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Anonymous

To be honest I just had a breakup today… I don’t know how to handle it… For first 4 months of relationship I cheated on my partner but as soon I realized my mistake I became very serious about him… I told him to give me second chance… From then till 2 months everything was fine… Then the trust issues started coming between us… I tried so hard to explain him that I m not cheating on him or doing anything wrong with him… But he was not ready to understand… Even small things started to bother him… Today he broke up with me I know my mistake was big but for 6 months I tried so hard to make everything good but there was no use of my efforts… He told me I have spend lots of money on you what you have spended on me… To which my answer is more than you which is true… I just don’t like how the money is coming between all this… He disrespect me many times but as I was attached to him I was like ok happens… I still want everything to be ok… I still love him… He told me he doesn’t… When I was in trouble he always helped me so do i … But he told me what have you done for me when you were with me and that hurts becz i used to be there for him everytime… I don’t know how to handle all this… If I am wrong what should I do if he is whaat should we do… As we study in same clg I don’t know how to face him everyday and what to answer my friends he’s friends. .

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Anonymous

Don’t go back to the same relationship because you have sowed the seed of doubt even if you get ready to give up on life for him he would still think you’re cheating and having multiple relationships. Try to forget him and don’t even have another relationship with another person so sometimes what humans do in order to forget the past relationship is they get into another relationship which is totally devastating. And about college why you cannot face him? It’s college, not his home thousands of people come and go if you focus on these small issues you will destroy your present as well as your future. Focusssssssssssssssss on yourself don’t repeat the same mistake again and try to gain skills which can benefit you even in the mid of 70s you can find a partner there are more than 7 billion in the whole world why do you think that one person is important, a day will come that you meet someone and have family with someone who will praise you the way you feel it’s all dream but for now don’t be stupid just focus on your studies and become something and then see the miracles in your life. If you want love look at your parents you will get love don’t be toxic and don’t destroy your future.

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Anonymous

Omg🥺this was the answer I was looking for… Tysm for understanding and explaning… More clear now✨✨❤

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Anonymous

Can we talk?

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Anonymous

Why did you cheat?

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Anonymous

Because we were so close that i didn’t even realised that now I am in a relationship and I should stop talking to him

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Anonymous

Your bf did right!

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Anonymous

If you want to talk we can??

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Anonymous

Thank you it helps🤞

Sandstorms @sandstorms

Break up was eventual the time he got to know about the cheating part. Your efforts to save after is what postponed it for as long as it did. Maybe all the while he was trying to process it and was double minded of how to go about it. When his mind couldn’t take it anymore he started being vocal about it and ended it… it’s not easy to trust someone when this happens and he wouldn’t have meant any of what he said and that’s heat of the moment… try to come out of it soon and move on and hopefully you’ll be able to find the one for you sooner than later. Best wishes

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Anonymous

It’s natural, once u cheated so later also no one will believe u

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Anonymous

yes correct, same my gf did cheated
bt i trusted her
we’r happy for 6 years, bt i got trust issues, now she left me for not understanding

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