Tired, confused, like I have some sort of bad karma because I fell for someone since the first day I met her and I have no doubt that I can’t stop loving her and it’s been years… We have done almost everything that couples do but she has never said yes to be my girlfriend or go out on dates. So we just go out for coffee and watch plays, we even like novels which we sometimes exchange… Anyways, she’s been distant a lot and even though she said she would like to be my girlfriend, she just ignores me when I try to confront her to tell me what we are if we’re not dating… I feel like she’s just using me to buy time until she gets another guy. I overthink and sometimes, almost most of the time, I’d like some clarity but she ignores the question and answers or replies to what I said next. I’m frustrated because even when she’s mad I can never always know the reason and she doesn’t talk about it. I want to be a great friend or whatever we are but it’s just so damn hard if I don’t know the problem.
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If a conversation isn’t happening about what you are feeling, making a healthy distance should help. (I feel)
Why do you want to break your heart buddy. Is it really worth the pain you are going through. Listen friend if she is not clear about the relationship she has with you then she is clearly using you. Tomorrow if she starts dating or gets married you will be left heart broken. So sort your emotions first and then confront her.