Okita @okita
This sounds really stupid but is it normal to suddenly hate your best friend for years?
I’m starting to hate her more and more each day because since elementary school grade 5, I liked a guy, he was talking to me and she actually went in-between us and started talking to me about something else. That’s where I started hated her until now (grade 9 or what you would call secondary 3). I think she’s kind of too overprotective, she would always break the conversations I have with other classmates and she keeps on following me everywhere I go and it’s literally very irritating to me. Like, I need space from her but she keeps on following me.
Yesterday was when I started to hate her in my mind. She got almost the same spectacles, tied her hair exactly how I would tie and she wore the exact same mask as me. Istg she knows that someone copying anything about me pisses me off and she still did it anyways.
I hated it whenever someone calls me but it was my best friend, like wtf we look so different
Then today she still wore the same exact things and she ‘secretly’ follow me everywhere I go to monitor what I do and how I do things and she would do the same things (I saw her cause she was being so obv). I personally think this is getting ridiculous. I think she’s just trying to gain the same amount of attention I normally get and its purely disgusting to me.
The small little gestures and small dances she would do to get attention from people is literally cringey. She would LITERALLY act cute to people and it would trigger my fight or flight mode, and would make me wanna hate her even more.
Hey it’s okaye
LizzyTheDinosau... @lizzythedino
She does not sound like a good friend. But I understand it is hard (impossible really) to just straight up say “Hey I don’t want to be friends with you anymore.”
Hey it’s completely normal …cuz you are changing and evolving in your characters and personalities … if she is a really good friend of yours so I would suggest you should talk to her and ask her about why she is interfering with your things and what are her opinions… if you are way past that stage I would suggest that you distance yourself from her and but do it gradually like don’t tell her what your evening plans or your weekend plans and you should try and make new friends outside, Who don’t share the same circle as her…… Also don’t spend so much time thinking about her because the more you think about her the less happy you are going to be so find new sets a friend have a little fun ….Because you will meet people like her in the future as well so you should learn to distance yourself from them and how to deal with them and not let them affect you.
