this is awkward to talk about but i’ve been trying to stop giving myself pleasure (if you know what i mean) because i feel like it was all i could think about and i’m trying to cool my s*x drive. i really need tips on how to stop though because i’m really feeling the urge to do so now
What’s your gender
i’m a girl
Why you wanna stop though
because the more i did it the more i found myself looking for actual s*x with other guys. i figure it’s not a healthy habit
Oh… there’s this book…“atomic habits” try to read it…it will help avoid any bad habits
Make a schedule…keep your phone away from yourself before sleeping at night
You must be watching stuff before doing it right?
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Maybe watch adult videos, consentful.
Maybe play romantic games.
And there is no issues wanting to have sex. Just make sure you’re using protection and are doing it with a person without STDs n all and make sure you don’t have them either and you can have as much sex as you like with whomever you like, as long as they want to too that’s all. Don’t shame yourself for that. Sexuality and gender are on a spectrum, your drive may be good for you and more for someone else and could be less for someone else. So don’t judge yourself, stay safe, stay protected, be ethical and treat others with the respect and compassion you have for yourself and that’s all that you need to care about. No body gives a shit about it, and if someone does they are not very good because their priorities are controlling and shit so do you! Don’t give a fuck about these thoughts, just trust yourself and it’s all okay.
i needed to hear this, thank you so much
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🌼 pleasure is all mine (no pun intended)
😄 Stay happy mate!
Like the way you said
I hear you and i feel you. If you are all alone give it a go. If not, hold on till you are alone and then give it a go. Thinking about it and waiting increases the pleasure time. It’s good and healthy to think about it and sometimes it is good to be distracted. Enjoy responsibly.
What’s your age anyway
18
Everyone’s gonna say it’s cool and fun enjoy it …but we both know getting addicted to it is not a good idea rn…it might divert our focus from our goals…so take care…i know I sound like elder brother…but still
Try talking to girls if you’re a guy and guys if you’re a girl (by talking i dont mean seggxting in anyways) but have some to share things…someone whom you begin your day with and wanna end it aswell this way you will feel attached and won’t get such thoughts (this works for me might not work for you)
I feel the same fkn way yaar. I’ve been going through the same thing as a guy here. Even I feel like doing it in real life but the problem is I don’t wanna do time pass also. It’s just sooo fked up.
Sometimes I feel why can’t I get to be with someone who feels the same way and just help each other get through this phase but even that won’t happen I guess😔 I really don’t know
Never get into anything related to online dating or seggsting…its not going to help …you may feel extremely repulsed afterwards …Instead divert yourself with other activities like some hard-core exercises, games something to sweat yourself out with. If you have friends go out and chill with them ,it’s the best medecine