This guy and i fell in love w each other, we are literally the most compatible and are perfect for each other. We both agreed that the way we connected is not even normal. But after we tried and dated for around 2 months that too long distance he said that long distance was too hard for him and it pained him emotionally cause he couldn’t have me there with him. It was hard to do long distance yes and he does say that if we were in person we would have dated and made it work no matter what but for the next 2 years we can only have long distance. We still have feelings and decided to stay the way we were w no tags and we both feel really deeply for each other and are trying to loose feelings but it’s so damn hard. I don’t know what to think and do cause this was literally right person wrong time. I wish I could make him Want the ldr cause that’s all we can do. He is still in love w me so am I but there’s nothing to do. Either I convince him to do ldr even tho it’ll hurt or we let go of each other and he says that in his head I’m still his and the thought of loosing that pains him too. I so sad just thinking about this each day cause this person and I were the epitome of the perfect match. We had every perfect just weren’t in the same place.
What do I do, how do i either get into a ldr or get over him this makes me so sad on a daily basis cause I fell for someone after soo long and so did he.
Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...
Hey!!
I hope you are doing good.
Listen, I am telling this with a personal experience. Long Distance Relationships are the one of the most difficult thing any couple can experience and can go through but this also makes you crave for their love who is away from you, makes you crave for some time to be alone, to have that US time.
And when finally, you both are together that moments is everything, trust me that feeling is on some other level.
I know it is difficult, but it is rightly said that, with right person , even you enjoy long distance relationships and with the wrong one you cant enjoy the being close and giving plenty of time to each other.
If you two are really into each other and love each other, then babe make him understand this that after fighting the odds you both will we together happily ever after.
Arey, saath dena hain toh voh tumse door rehkr bhi de sakta hain, uske liye pass hone ki zarurat nahi bas voh spark chahiye, voh understanding chahiye.
I just hope that you two end up being with each other as you say you both are epitome of perfect match.
Good Luck.
This actually made me tear up thank u so much girl but how do I explain it to him when ldr is so hurting him?
Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...
Make him understand, that you two complete each other. these are very small problems you two will overcome them if you both are together.
Angel @randomartist
This is a struggle me and my bf are going through. Im in USA he’s in India and we w wont be able to move in together for 3 more years. But we love eachother dearly and so are both willing to make it work, because we know that when we do meet in person it will all be worth it, if you truly love each other, explain to him that you dont want to loose him and even tho sometimes ldr’s suck, its all worth it in the end . wish you both luck and love <3 <3
