There was this person in my life who actually treated me like Princess and I treated him like God. Even during my exams I talked with him for hours because I was afraid of losing him.unlike other boyfriends who used to avoid their girlfriends he was too much into me. There was not a single fight which had span of more than an hour. Last 3 years of life were always about him and I. He always made it look like itās practically impossible for him to live without me as even at the tiniest fight he used to cry and cry a lot. they says itās very rare for boys to cry so I made myself promise to never hurt him. So this morning I found out he was cheating on me with not one but many women. And it surprised me to the core he was always by my side and as per his wish I put him before my college and career so when did he ever got this time and need to cheat me. Itās like i canāt even remember anything before him . Even today he started crying when i complained so I made him feel better and then he slept and here I am confused and broken.
Hey! I understand you love him and donāt want to hurt him but cheating is unacceptable. You are a kind human, you donāt deserve this shit to happen to you. Cheating is not a mistake, itās a choice. He made this choice. He chose them over you. Itās time you choose yourself over him.
I know rightā¦and thatās making it worst for me because I canāt see him in tears. I mean how stupid I am. How can I hate myself to this extent? I want him to wake up and leave but here I am pretending like itās practically nothing. It was just an incident. But it hurts.
Take care and move onā¦
Like itās easyā¦ right??
Itās not but thatās the right thing and a good thing for you
Yes, you are right. Thanks a lot š
you know what it was not ur fault he is just an asshole bcz u know cheating was never an option, and he knew what he did and u canāt put him first when u have ur carrierās ans studies so better to be focus on em Rather on this bcz once a cheater is always a cheater
more power to u stay strong honey ā¤ļøš„ŗ
Your words are really kind but itās my fault because I know he cheated but I canāt figure out what I did to let him go that way.
hey donāt need to feel bad on such scumbags u r so strong and remember once a liar is always a liar tears are Always a great weapon to melt someone so donāt be melted or forgive just bcz he cried. u know ur Worth and u have ur carrierā and studies focus on em Rather than giving this scumbag a second chance
bcz cheating is never an option itās a decision and u know u donāt deserve such asshole who cheat on u
stay strong š„ŗā¤ļø
But what if I couldnāt move on.it would be embarrassing right?
You should move on before it gets worse
I want to but I donāt know how.
This communication part is tough because when he cries he cries like a baby messing his nosy and tears. He cries loudly so I had to comfort him and ask him to leave but i am not sure if I would be able to convince him not to create a scene about it.
Itās practically impossible because he spends more time here then in his office or at his own home. Also I am stupid enough to not to ignore him. I am sorry you had to read this. I am being crazyā¦so sorry.
Cheating isnāt tht big a deal
A lot of adults cheat on their partners
If you feel like he is still worth it you can stick with him
Talk to him though
Trust is foundation of relationships
nikcky @snik
It happens in teenagers. You guys donāt have a clue about life love sacrifice ect . Thats why
And you have no Idea that I am not a teenager. And it sucks when you judge without any clue. Neither of us is teenager.
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Lol , u re a mature person. Good luck
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Lol?? Seriously???
abhishek @buck
So sad to hear thstā¦but my case was differentā¦im the one who always messed her life ā¦and she always try to solve thingā¦her family is strict littleā¦bt she nevr leave meā¦im so luckā¦from the past 5 year we never meet each otherā¦we never had a chat conversationā¦she called me once a day for 10 to 15 min ā¦nd im ok with thatā¦the feeling that she always with meā¦is superbā¦bt the fellingnd the thought that one day we have to leave each other is broke my heart alwaysā¦nd the problems she faces because of meā¦i just hate myself some timeā¦but she never complained ā¦nd i loved that about herā¦
I don lnow why im telling youā¦but im sharing this with youā¦thnkuā¦
The fact that I used to feel the same is crazy. I donāt want to ruin it but blind trustā¦just donāt do it.
He is an ass gurlllā¦ You deserve much better than him.
Cheating with one person is already not a good thing and he cheated on you with multiple and still you are so strong. This guy doesnāt deserves you.
I know you have no idea what it is like to be not with him in the future because you always with him right?
But i want you to know , cheati g is a decision. He decides to cheat on you.
It is time for you to confront him. Ask him everything you want. Tell him anything you want. Make sure you are in a right mind. Because you need to be alert. To see if he being manipulative or not. If he responsible enough to take the accountability for what he had done or not.
Then, choose your battle. For some of us, if we being cheated. We left. Immediately. Because that is the deal breaker. For someone else, they endure the pain of being cheated and carry on with their life together. And i need you to remember, what we tolerate at this point right now, are the things we gonna face in the future everyday. For life is too short to be sad and confused over some one.
Move on is never easy. It is an ugly phase. But it is a first step towards peace. We choose ourself before anyone else. We honour ourself. We do not allow ourself to be disrespected. Healing journey is not linear. After 2 weeks for example we thought heyyyy im completely over him , the next day we feel the hurt as the same. Because we are good people. We love people sincerely. Mobing on is hard. Being cheated and manipulated are hard too. So choose your hard.
More power and love to you. Give yourself tje lovee you give others. Yourself deserve that. š¤
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This is really something I wanted to hear. Thanks a lot
Been there. Done that. It has been a year without him. Not completely over him but SO MUCH PEACE AND LOVE FOR MYSELF. , ā¤
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You are really stronger than me. I moved to a different city so that we donāt have to communicate at all. So yes itās been a day only and i had blocked him everywhere except email because I had no idea that it can be used as a medium too. I rarely check my emails and i remove them from notification without even seeing. But I saw today that I had more than 20 emails from him and after reading only 3 of them itās getting hard for me. All that courage is now melting and there are voices in my head defending him. I am feeling a lot of emotions. For last three days I was supporting myself but today I am hating myself.
Ok I am not saying who are wrong but there are guys who are very sensitive that they cry over a small thing and sometimes few of them think of it as an advantage for getting a girl ā¦ Not everyone is like that ā¦ And I know that itās hard for you but you have to break up and let him go ā¦ Itāll get better with time ā¦ So donāt worry and think that you are alone you have friends and parents with you and for now focus on yourself and your studies ā¦ Then heāll regret letting you go ā¦ Just focus on keeping yourself happy without him
I will try my best. Thanks a lot š
No worries
