There is this one friend of mine whom i met 2-3 days back and he didn't texted me anything just it was nice today. I was in confusion like something must've happened or he felt awkward but I talked to him today about it he told me sorry that i made you feel like that and all but I'm still confused because he didn't asked me to meet up again. Am I thinking too much or is it okay? Should I let him go and act all cool ? 

well, I did open up to him but he did not respond like that we should do this again or not.  even I indirectly asked him to go out but he just didn't get the point.

I was the one who asked him out first to go out with me and I asked indirectly as well should I ask again? It's not like we are strangers I know him for the past 2-3 years.

yeah maybe i should just be cool and let him go 

Yeahh that is the point will he come or not? Like i asked I don't want to look like I'm the desperate one who wants to meet like if you like me or wanna meet do some efforts 

Should i wait for 1-2 days or ask him instantly? I guess give it some time maybe? Wdy think?

I have done nothing wrong it just we were in the moment when we met and did some things. That's why I'm hesitating a bit 

And don't want sound like a desperate person. Like we did this before too but it was like once in a year and he was always like we should do this I'm intrested in you in that way 

But when we did this before he was the one who always asked me if I wanted to do it or not. And also it was his idea to get a room instead of going to a restaurant and hang out there . 

Well i wrote everything now it is being unapproved thought 

Confusion

I thought he would ask me atleast if I have boarded the bus, or anything. But nothing😓. He only texted me "happy journey". Am I wrong to overthink but whatever it's just making me sad. I am his fiance

Marriage

I'm crying so hard I can't focus and get done anything atm,my boyfriend says I'm too immature for him and because of that he doesn't wants to talk to me.i love him so much but he never loved me more.He always cared about his feelings and himself never me. 

I Can’t loose him, i feel I'll be alone again, but he has thousands of reasons and other people in his life who’s important more than me. I'm not even in his priority list. He tells me that he loves me but can’t marry me. Until he gets married he wants to be with me. But he has no guts to tell to his parents about us. I don’t want to lose him I’m trying to move away from him bcz it’s the best thing. But i can’t😢😭. I think about it every single day and i can't even sleep properly. I'm into therapy but still it's not working😭. I fucking hate my situation. I can't do anything, I sit all day in my bed and do nothing, i journal my thoughts but nothing is helping me. When he talks with me good and treats me well. My whole day will be happy, but the day he treats me like shit, I cry all day. Don't know what to do 😭😭😭

Hi
I am a 23yo F. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15 (he was 14)
We met at our coaching. He really liked me. I did like him too.  I had v strict parents so I didn't really talk to him. He broke up with me (understandably so) after me not being able to talk to him for months and not telling him why.

We then moved to different cities for college and reconnected via fb after 2 yrs. We talked all the time and he said he loved me. I was ecstatic. he asked me out on my bday. But I was unsure because I knew how much he hated LDR. He talked to me the entire night about what I meant to him and I just gave in.the next six months were magical

Love

I have been in a 5 year relationship with good times and bad and when the bad time he would always tell me that things were done always were to blame me for everything.
he just ended things with me for something he caused and blamed me for what happened and tells me that he needs time blocks me on everything and goes to tell me I will never find a man I’m worthless called me a lot of ugly names and said If I would have given him space we wouldn’t be where we are. that I need to change a lot and he has not anything wrong with him 

somehow I always manage to second guess myself and blame myself for always messing up and not being perfect enough:(
I don’t know how to get over all this..

Breakup

Everything was okay . After evening my boyfriend did a video call , we are not even in a proper relationship . He has a girlfriend he use to talk to her also . They have interreliogion issues may be. So he is trying to shift , but with me he is not happy , I don't fulfill his needs. I don't want to do this actually , it's make me worthless . How can I love again and again , people leave , they leave for many reasons , even if you give your heart and soul . Life is so uncertain . I loved and lost. Trust issues increasing each day , I feel angry at silly things. If anyone thing , one person understand you , may be it's enough to live. But I have become pessimistic , life throws stones for my each expectation. Sometimes I just don't feel or feel worthless at times , sometimes I feel optimistic , so much of mixed feelings , thoughts , uncertainty and in this I am really seraching me , I am really trying hard to live .

Life

Why is that you can be sure about someone and can't be sure about " commitment" ? Is it okay to feel this way? Why is tha we can't let go of someone , even if we try to convince ourselves that we can't lose our self-respect why can't we let go of the person in our thoughts? I like a guy , I told him , he clearly said he never felt that way , we are pretty close and now we haven't spoke for 20 days , I dont text him and he didn't.. somtimes I feel he treats me like my other close person of his .. I wanna move on.. I am never a girl wh sits and cry over a man .but why is it confusing? 

3am Thoughts

I have a frd who is also my colleague, When I was having though time we used to talk alot and spent time together because we both felt like we understand each other best and we were comfortable together, I was attracted to him because he is a very good listener so I was very confused about my feelings that time coz I was also having hard time in every way and he was the only one who was listening to me, but I figured it out very soon that I was only attracted to him that's it and moved on... after sometime he confessed his feelings to me but I refused coz I never actually had feelings for him I was just comfortable around him and he supported me that's why I was attracted to him for some time. He also agreed to that and we decided to not to talk about this matter anymore and we continue as frd for long time without any uncomfortable situation or talk, but recently he is trying hard to impress me and putting extra efforts again. I told him in my way not to do so ..coz it makes me feel really uncomfortable coz we are living as a frd for long time and now I only see him as a frd ... I can't be rude to him to draw the boundary between us..... please help me how can I  draw the boundary without being rude???( Even after i told him not to things for me he force me to allow to let him do he knows my weak points that I can't be rude to anyone and for that reason he always successfully do whatever he wants to do for me but it makes me uncomfortable.

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