There is this girl i am in love with… i cant say that its love becoz… i have abandonment issues… small display of caring gets me hooked… plus i have been mistreated a lot by my ex crushes… soo rejections were constant!! To cope up with these issues… i somehow get attracted to one or more girls at the same time… for supposedly “backup plans” but the only thing that differed in this was the intensity… intensity of love varied alot…
The point im trying to make is… i loke this girl alot… but she has soo many complex and compelling ideas… which are both “not same as mine” and “OMG moments” which basically impresses me alot!! She never had to struggle with boys!! Everyone was and is behind her… she had an ex… but that guy is soo close to her that even thier parents know each other and now they casually meet… she believes that she has low eq(emotional quotient) less emo types… soo she used to have casual relationships!! Ab the point is… idk if she is just flirting with me or if she really likes me…
Girls help me out… what the fuck goes through ur brain… idk if i should pursue this or keep this as a good friendship
Shaina 🌺 @shainaitis
If already she has so many guys behind her, and you two are good friends, I don’t guess you confessing to her would be the best thing to do. Wait for it. Maybe she’s into you, or maybe not, you should just go with the flow for now because whatever she’s upto, she’ll get you to know.
Although the ‘back up’ thing was funny and weird😂, filhal don’t supress your liking too much, otherwise you might end up getting hurt. Get me?
Hasshhh okayy!! Got it … ill just move on for now
Don’t put it on somewhere back coz she’s just flirting and having fun so don’t take it seriously she’ll come make u feel special but be very very careful coz a girl like that ruined my total lyf but it’s only coz I had issues on my side also so keep it as low as you can it’ll pass you can be happy
*Don’t pursue
I forgot to add it 🤣 in start
Expect**
Pika' @rubyrose
If you push her so much it will break the bond if you don’t do anything it won’t happen, it’s something in the middle.
But either way, having backups? What? I am disappointed on people but seeing it everyday I think I am in the right… Well good luck and be prepared for more breaks if you treat people like dishes
My mind works that wayy… soo im still processing it… plus backups is a bad fit for the thing i exp on daily basis… i used the work backups for layman’s… since u guys cant get it… plus dont be disappointed!! U aint the first!!
But ill look forward to ur advice!!
You can’t control how other people feel I am sure you ain’t trying to do bad to no one but for me it was hard to be treated that way so it just hits on me.
Hope you can recover and appreciate maybe the backups options that you say as the potentials partners they surely may be
