There is this boy, I always admired as a person and wanted to be friends with. But then when we started talking I realised he likes me but i didn’t/don’t. So i started keeping my distance coz I didn’t wanna hurt him since I am in a relationship. And now we are not on talking terms. But he is friends wd a lots of frnds of mine and he as well his other frnds kind of holds grudge against me so it got really messy . And now I hate the fact that I can’t hate him after all this. He affects my life in one way or other. Idk what to do anymore…
Just tell him whats is wrong and all so he would understand you
Everyone knows what’s the problem they just hate the fact that i like my bf and chose him (who is also one of their frnd ) instead of him .
Wait what you did? Didn’t understood?
It’s just that they both ,that guy and my bf are frnds… But he liked me when I liked my bf and vice versa. So that’s the problem. In the beginning we were not dating. But i liked him(who is my bf now)
You should have cleared it naa?
I did. He knew everything. It’s just some kind of bro code or whatever shit they be going on about. And it sucks.
So they both aren’t in talking term?
Yes and at the end I am the reason and I hate it. And I have no idea what to do about it.
You can like make a plan of all three of you and sort out the things
That wont work. I have no intention of being his frnd again and my presence will never let them be frnds again
I guess you have to make peace with all.
😞😞
Well you can try to make peace so that you can live peacefully…
I will agree with this but what to do about it.
Nope we all are 23 24 🙂 ( and ofc we are not the genz kids)
