There are two of my friends one(the guy) was my bestest friend . And the other one is also closest one (the girl) the guy and i used to talk daily and i was so close to him that he knew everything about me
I shared with him every detail of my life
Now since the both of my friends have become best friends and they have started ignoring me
The guy friend isnt interested in talking and everytime i tried to keep a contact he come up with an excuse
And the girl friend also doesnt feel like talking to me
Everyday this thought of losing my friendship bothers me and make me feel depressed lonely
Both of them say i overreact on everything
Am i really overreacting? Is it normal to see your friends ignoring? I dont knw pls help me with the situation it is bothering me a lot
You are not overreacting at allā¦! Give them some timeā¦ dont be behind them i feelā¦! After few days talk to them 1-1 and you try to understand your importance in their lifeā¦! Then act accordingly
Dear,your not overreacting .The mentality of people is like that only .
They donāt care about others when they get new . We also donāt care about our old things when we get the new oneās . You can try new things in your life and donāt let them bother you . The more you think the more you will be sad. I know itās hard but you can try giving importance to yourself like by doing things which you like which make you feel very happy and good about yourself. Be sure that you stay healthy and see the ones who love you the most not others
Just be yourself š try watching BANGTAN videosš
even i used to feeltghat for my frnds but now u cant do anything . first go straight up and tell them how u feel and see if u continue to feel that way if thers a change that means they care and if they continue to change be ur own best frnd , distance urself , ppl tend to change and even u should . clearly amke boundaries . dont trust anyone blindly . make it worth . be strong headed that beyond tis no matters only self love and care helps u be urself . and never ever share everything with everyone . i repeat never even i its ur mom or ur life long frnd .
even i have frnds from 8 9 yers and even my frndship broke with my 5 6 years long fnrd but i am happy becoz not everyone deserves to know everything in my life .
no one knows my entire life . u have a life , waste it behind finding ur worth and chasing ur dreams not behind stupid dumbass ppl
