The place I work, we have seriously have a very good team and along with executives, supervisors, seniors and everyone! But Everyone talks to me Nicely and Help me Understanding better! But there are 2 arrogant Bartenders, who has a lot of attitude in them! even if I do some mistake they talk very rudely and after I turn my back and leave saying sorry! They give bad words, and spread my mistakes and tries to make my image down and break my good bond with everyone! What to do if Such People I really don't understand! I tried to friendship with them knowing they are doing all this to me still they accepted the frendship bond and still doing the same thing! irritated!😖😖😞

I think they are just jealous of you. And i can say that because that same thing has happened with me also. So i think you should just focus on you and your work and the people who are your friends will understand you and if they take there side that means they are not good friends. 

Shreyas

Work

Morose and Guilty

Over the past few years, I've looked for emotional intimacy in relationships rather than building close friendships. I've had friendships with people but none that I've put solid effort into maintaining and growing. My most recent "relationship" with a sociopathic narcissist blew up and has made me consciously aware of how negligent I've been with my friendships. Throwing in quarantine, it's made me more aware of how few friends I actually have. I'm determined to fix this when all of this ends, but I need help processing why I've pursued this path for as long as I have.

Relationships

Had a lot of friends in college, so it never felt that I need a GF too as I was more than happy with all my friends.

But as the college comes to an end, now I'm only left with 1 friend. All other are busy with their GFs/BFs, and now they find it difficult to take out time for their friendship

Also during this wfh thing, I don't even have a single school friend in my hometown with whom I can hangout as most of my classmates went abroad after school.

I don't know what to do know, feels like I really need someone special now with whom I can share anything and who's more than a friend to me and understands my emotions.



Girlfriend

Is it my fault somehow if my guy doesn't want to make any friends but just spend time with me alone? I mean I do like it but I want him to have more friends, so that he has someone to talk to if and when I'm not there. I feel so bad that somehow I'm the reason for him to not have any friends

I hate shit that's one sided.
It may be friendships or relationships...I hate it

Mental Wellbeing

hi, i don't have many friends anymore. I only literally have family as my friends. I wish I had actual friends that aren't family. I want to have experiences with that. everyone left me after graduation. I'm pretty much a loner now.

Anxiety

One realisation I had today … That we should have different set of friends for different things we are interested in … I keep worrying that one of my friends group is hard for me to connect but I like them … For example …I am a socially awkward person and my friend group has super energetic people .. I like the vibe sometimes but then sometimes I feel like im not able to be myself around them .. So I realised that we should have different set of people to hangout for different things in life …Ofcourse that special people among friends do understand you and want to spend time your way but im talking about a group here … what do u think ?? 

Acquaintance

i have so much friend issues, at starting i was very helpful and easy to communicate even if someone was fighting i say hit me what you want to say just say it to me just don’t fight please.For sometime it was good but after sometime they used me make fun of me ,next year those friends get less and we made a group 2 of them still use me for there work,next year whole class get one as a unity and help each other but also that time they use me for hiding something for telling lie to somebody they choose there boyfriend and not me who always help them, they always get shy when they were with there bf and take me with them and even there bf says "you are spoiling over privacy"it was not my mistake i said to them no but still,next year when i get fail in class and they all passed they forget me they ignore me i realize finally they were snakes betrayed me use me,but still in my class there was 1 who was my friend we became BFF and after sometime 1 get in our class not it became TRIO WE WERE SO HAPPY,enjoying away from those betrayers but next year covid-19 year started 1 one of them started talking less i don’t know why we even get 3-4 fights but i still control i tried but she never she thought when school will open every thing will be normal but its not anymore it was not like when it was in starting next year again still covid 1 was left we were getting more close but she is like when she need me she talks to me or every second she wants to talk to me every time those old Qs lunch?what?morning?get up? sometime i think i’m needy greedy who needs perfect and blaming everybody,not myself but i don’t know who is right and whose is not but yeah for 1st class to know i still got a friend who is still with me once i don’t talk to her that much but i always cared and she too we always ask each other and now she is with me we talk every hour. i know not every friend is for always and like you just i need a friend who will with me for long.

Friends

Do u guys feel sorry that you don’t have any friends anymore bc of your past and get depressed over that and daydream about having friends or someone loving u. Like am I the only one. Likeeee ughhhhh. 

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