the only dream i have is to study abroad. i wanted to my MBBS abroad but yeah it costs too much. umm so the plan is to do post graduate abroad. but the thing is idk how,what and when. i mean I dream so much but the I don,t know from how to begin.what are the things required, what is it that I'm supposed ti do? can somebody please help me out. its I need to get to the top floor but there are no stairs or lift? what to do?????


stop obsessing over the top floor, there might be so many other different amazing floors apt for you, so count your blessings and be thankful you are even in the building. Not everyone makes it to the BUILDING, let alone the TOP FLOOR

Career

My parents are forcing me to do b.tech but I want to pursue my dreams, what should I do now?

I wanna go study abroad after my 12th
currently I'm having science with biology
My parents don't even wanna let me go outside the city, they're like you're a girl, you should not go anywhere 
I soo soo badly wanna go study med abroad, like its been my dream for soo long 
I just think its impossible
I would never be able to convince them
And I've my boards in 2023
I don't know what to do?
Can anyone help me with it? 

Dreams

I am pursuing my masters in geology but not because I am interested in the subject but because I don't know what else to do. I am embarrassed to ask my parents for money. Have no idea if things will work out or not. Have no interest in the subject which I am pursuing, have no interest in any other subjects as well. My parents are too supportive so they will allow me to do anything I want. But I have no idea what to do with my life. I get frustrated thinking about it often. 

It all started in 2019, I left my job as a chemical engineer and started a new journey towards learning data science. I joined an institute for training and it lasted for 8 months and from that point, I am jobless.  It's not like I did not work hard for it, I did all I could and I also made few mistakes out of good intentions for myself. 
After every job interview, they said that I cannot get this job because I am from a chemical background.
I have been failing for more than 2 years now and I feel like I should quit and try something else, I am thinking of doing Mtech in Chemical engineering. 
When I told my parents about this they think I am just being a loser and I am failing because I quit too soon, I don't think that trying for 2 years straight and then quitting is too soon. 
I am so depressed that I play PC games the whole day and I do not feel like going out and meeting my relatives and friends. 
I am not able to make eye contact with my parents, I am losing my respect in their eyes. 
I am 25 and I feel like everyone is going ahead of me and I am lacking behind. I feel like if I talked about this with my relatives and friends, instead of helping me they will judge me and spread a false rumour about me(I have few relatives who spread false rumours and they love to talk about other's failure all the time).
I really need someone to express this feeling all out. 


Failure

is it possible for a doctor to come to know if you have taken an ipill thru any test .

Abortion

Hey everyone. This is my first time i am writing something like this where i am telling how i feel about my life. I just passed class twelfth, obviously low score. Parents as usual unhappy, rather dissatisfied. I had PCM. I was never made for these subjects. Parents thought it's the only way to be successful in life and on their saying i took these subjects. I never understood a word about chemistry. I could understand any reaction. I never understood the concepts of physics, though I tried a lot to understand these but never succeeded. My only hope was math. After my result, i scored the lowest in math. And nobody cared the fact that even though i couldn't understand a thing about science still i managed to score 75%. My dad says i never tried to work hard. And sees a great disappointment in me. But who will tell him that his son scored in  the subjects which were beyond his reach, subjects others feared to study. I just want my dad to know this. I never told him that I can't understand a thing. He never asked me that if i was comfortable with the subjects or not. And i don't know what to do in life because he still wants me to go in science field. 


Other

As a medical student.there is lot of pressure build up inside me.and i have a disease called "procastination".

Overthinking

Hello everyone, I've been feeling really confused and helpless lately. Maybe you can help with some suggestions. 

My story starts 3 yrs ago, I took admission in arts as I was interested in the same but my parents somehow convinced me to give polytechnic exam and in my area not everyone can qualify it and get into a good college but I got good rank even though I did no preparation, it was very unexpected. I was chill bcoz I thought I won't get a government college but I got the college my parents wanted me to send into. They said just invest 3 yrs into this and then do whatever you want, technical field has a lot of scope whereas in arts you have to study for long and we cannot afford that. The term 'afford' hit me and I joined the government college. My course is being completed now and I got placed in wipro ( but couldn't join because they aren't proving accomodation) and one is chennai and bangalore but my parents denied saying it's not a good place. And according to my parents theory if I'm working outside, I must manage without any financial support from the family, but if I'm studying they are ready to pay the fees and take care of all my finances for 3-4 yrs, I hope you are getting my point. I searched for numerous jobs , applied ( didn't get response from most), searched for btech colleges , showed all the fee structure ( avg of 1sem , 1yr and 3yrs in total with hostel) all that research just to hear diploma toh karli aur kya jarurat hai aage padhne ka, and my dad said that if you want to study BA, do BA Or Btech whatever but in a nearby college. So I searched for jobs in the city only and wfh jobs but bcoz of handful opportunities I got none. I had hopes in one company as they were hiring diplomats but I got selected in 2 rounds but couldn't clear the last one. My mental health is not really good these days, I have breakdowns every day followed by anxiety and feeling really depressed. Seeing my condition my mother is scared and is saying if you want to join those jobs who were providing hostel facility + food then you can go but I've already said no to them and have to go through interviews, exams and all that again. What do you think I should do?

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