The guy I'll date is 2 years younger than me ...i don't have any problem but will my indian parents be fine with it?

Yes sure they will but before that you have to provide them a good and strong reason to marry him 

Don't you think you should speak to them and ask that? 

3am Thoughts

I'm scared to even imagine it..like what if I love what would have happened and..in reality I could never get it..I can't hurt my heart but just for this post I would like to imagine it works out in the end and..

He would be the only person I can be with in so love but so calm I was not there with him in his most crucial part ..he lost his father the frst tym we broke up his father fell sick I didn't know that then we got backa nd now I got to know this after 1 year when i decided to unblock him and just accept the breakup and moveon actual moveon ..but if it just worksout i know it wouldn't were different religions too we have different beliefs but i am in love with him..not just him I love myself when I'm around him i laugh for real he cares for me like none he sees me for myself he never bother my sudden weight gain weightloss he always behaved the same ..but I have gone through a lot i don't wanna tell him i don't want to have the time again I just miss the past i used to be so innocent so sweet and he too is so good to me never crossing limits if I'm uncomfortable he would know it ..why we broke up? He cheated ..and LIED if he just accepted and apologized i would have nno problem in accepting him again but no he decided to lie fcking idiot i hate when he kissed that girl ah..sht really just remembered why we broke up good that I wrote this post I love him but i don't want him i can't risk everything and get him in my life and if this happens again I will literally kll him so i should stop. Right here. I will move on I know I am not able to trust anyone again so be it. I will just be alone ratger than this sht. Bye.ended.

Love

okay...so this feeling sucks....of having my abandonment and gaslighting by parents, bf and friends being triggered by a gentleman i just got physically intimate with and developed feelings for. 

1. Men are such creeps. Especially those divorced middle aged charming men..first they will flirt with you so much, enamour you and then after you get physically intimate and you develop a fondness for them, they stop giving bhav and treat you as invisible.

2. Then the lies they tell to get you. First they will tell they are safe nice good hearted guys, and they're oh-so-interested in you,..and then you see them fondling and getting close to other women just after a day.

WTF.

And 3-4 days earlier when this guy was trying woo me and get close to me, then he was all sweet, smiling and involving me...caring also.

and now, despite me having fever, looking sick, he is not even showing basic courtesy when we bump iinto each other(like living in the same premises)..likei am so off.

And now not only he treats me like invisble but also is so so pissed off for no reason.
ok i hope i come to terms with this...and make peace. and love myself enough. Anyways, he is travelling out of town for 10 days tomorrow onwards, so perhaps out of sight;out of mind ho jayega mere liye.

I'm woo-ed and developed this big crush on him too(which is normal)..and now it's like wtf. 
i wasn't prepared for this...so yeah
i hope i make and get peace. 
Then i will not have to be so anxious about seeing him and his snootyness n suddenly changed behaviour in 2 days, 


thanks..this feels lighter after sharing

Crush

Its been 10 months now, I am still not over him. I loved him truly but he cheated on me and so we broke up. I am still haunted by the memories the promises he made. Its like am trap inside the memories and can't get out. I still love him but I can't put myself through that kind of mental torture again. I really don't know what to do or how to get over him. I am trying very hard, telling myself that everything is great when he is not in my life. But nothing helps 😔

Breakup

So confused. 
The situation is the following. Me (24F) and my partner (40M) have been living together for two years now and we are certain that we want to start a family together. There are some problems especially for me to start a family where we currently live and it is because in this city they speak my native language but it's a co-oficial language, the other it's a language that only this region speaks in the whole world and at school it's mandatory to learn it. So my future children will be speaking my native language but obligated to receive classes in a language that me and my partner don't know and we won't learn it because in the professional field it's useless. We won't be able to help them with school besides the fact that they will have no use of this language in any other country. So at first we agreed that eventually we will have to move out to start a family. Yes we own an apartment here, all of my partner's frieds and family live here but not any of mine so I get he has more to lose than me... So next year I graduated from university and I'm ready to leave but my partner says that he doesn't want to plan anything so when I come up to places, countries, cities and visas we can apply for (he's a skilled worker with +10 year experience) he says that I'm not planning enough that I'm not taking in considerantion all the requirements that's way I come to him but he says he doesn't want to think about it. I'm driving myself crazy because I want to know what lenguage to learn or get a diploma, I want to make an internships in that place before we move there but he's unable to plan It with me and we had this same conversation over and over again so I told him that leaves me all alone making the decisions and actually doing things that will be easy for me to move to that place. I feel guilty and confused because it's like I'm planning for the future bymyself for myself because I can't count on him or have a single clue of what he wants to do next year. 

Am I being the a-hole? what do I feel so terrible If I'm doing things like exactly how I want my future to be like?

Relationships

I'm feeling confused. 

I am in a happy relationship for the past 3 years. But right now, we are into long distance. I met one guy at an event. We started meeting just to chill because I am new in the city and he is my only friend and I am introvert, I take time to make friends. Once we met at his place and after a long talk and hooked up. 
I still love my boyfriend but I didn't feel guilty about it or anything. I felt good, I don't know why. 
But from the past few days, while talking to my boyfriend I feel a bit guilty and bad. However, I wanna hook up with that guy again. I don't know why, It's making me feel good about myself. I don't know, this never happened to me. Ever! 
I was always into relationships, never did something like this. I am continuous, thinking about all this. What to do? I really love my boyfriend and we are really happy in our relationship. I don't know why this is happening. 
Am I a sex addict or something? 
I know, I am doing something wrong. But it feels good to hook up. Something I feel I am doing something for me which is making me happy. 
What to do? 

Long Distance Relationship

So I have been crushing on this guy for almost 3 years now ,2 years ago I heard he got a girlfriend far much younger than him we lost contact with each other mainly because I was hurt by this and he never knew I had a crush on him....
Last year he broke up with his girlfriend and he had a series of depression ,self hurt and suicidal thoughts I was more like a shoulder to cry on for about 8 months (not a rebound)  we got closer to each other and our bond  got stronger recently I went through a hearbreak and a series of anxiety and depression and when I told him about it over text he said we should go out to take my mind off of things we planned to get lunch and just talk (and its been highly requested by him many times) So the day finally came and I got stood up...
He hasnt returned any of myt exts or calls
He made matters worse

yesterday i had this thing like i felt my heart broke or idk that weird feeling cause me and my ex broke up few weeks ago and i started thinking abt him and i go check too see if he posted sum or wtv and it was that he unfollowed lol but that was so random 

I miss my ex so much. He has no idea how much damage he has caused. This is unfair. 

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