Terribly Sadš£
I had to break up with my boyfriend and put an end to our 4 years relationship. We had plans of getting married and decided to talk to our parents. He first choose to convince his as his parents were strict than mineā¦ once his parents wouldāve agreed then it was easy for me to tell my parents as they already knew him very well.
But his parents ignored him everytime he bought up the topic of marrying meā¦ they thought I wasnāt fit for him. Plus a lot things regarding my kundali, my birth place, the land we owned, how much could we give in dowry was being put up by his relativesā¦
We were all goodā¦ it was just due to his parents that I decided I need to put a stop to this.
He was in India from last 3 months and heās going back on 14th. Am way too upset and stressed out that I had to do it this way just before he is going back.
Did I do the right thing? He says heās gonna try till the last day that heās here, but I know his parents wonāt agree.
Go for a court marriage thn, remember one thing ,u hv to marry a person not his whole family , why u guys r ruining ur life for others,
Hi, Thanks for your reply. For me as well as him our parents are on top priority. So we cannot do anything without them. I agree I need to marry him and not his family, but eventually I need to stay with his family if they agree.
Thank you so muchš.
I am trying to be positive but the thoughts wonāt go from my mind. Like just two weeks back we had the best vacation as he was back after a year and a half. But now just cutting him off is way too difficult š„ŗ
I hear youā¦ thank you so muchā¦ Iāll try to push him hard to try and convince his parents.
Hey be positive , everything will be fine . Just take some time
Thank you Ritu. I am trying my best. But ending a four year relationship just due to his parents is more worstā¦
We didnāt have any issue with each otherš£
Just talk to him . One day just visit his home . I am asking you to very brave š . Who knows his parents might change
Yes I guess I have to do that nowā¦ Coz I canāt just wait and watch him go
Tell your parents to talk with his parents. If two families will meet then they will have a great conversation regarding your marriage. And also it will be better if you visit his family and talk to them. Pairs are already made by God. If you are meant to be with him then no matter whatever the reason is he will be yours. Good Luck!
Thank you so muchā¦ I think you are rightā¦ I need to try from my end by meeting his parents and let my parents talk to themā¦ hope things work outā¦