Suppose u stay at your relatives and do job… Then go to gym and then do pocha then dinner and then dishes and sweeping… What u will expect your aunt to say?
And what she will actually say/or what she say??
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Hmmm… she’ll say thanks for helping out with the chores. I guess.
What does she says?
She said… Pocha saf se nhi lgati tum… I felt really bad… I am. Giving efforts so that they don’t feel ki kam. Ni krti bilkul… But what about how I feel…
Ignore her… This struggle sacrifice you are doing will give you result…i feel you… She’s a relative, she’ll act like one… One way or other… Focus on what you are there to do
I try to ignore… And i think thats the only way I can survive here… But sometimes I think why r relatives like that…?
Like unke khud k bche h. Or mujse bde… And his son also goes to gym and comes from there, she says bichara kitna thak jta h… Din bhr office ka kam phir gym m b thk jta hoga…
I understand…it’s their karma…some are blessed with parent like relative…i know you are strong and you will be alright
Yes I need to work on it… Thnk youu
You can vent or just talk to me whenever you feel like…i wish she’ll be a bigger person one day
I would love to…
# Ayush # @aj_005
Bada bhaari kaam kar liya…
Ha aisa hi kuch… Gives no value…
I was annoyed at his comment…but when i know this is the reality…i feel sorry
Base Up @idol_type9
If I were you… I won’t expect her to say anything to me… No expectations from them… What I did what my share of work in the house and I did it… Thats it… Nothing to overthink or expect in this situation. If I lived alone I would have anyhow done the same tasks or maybe more than these.
So it would be better to focus on other much imp matters of my life . thats it.
I was just trying to covey my thought…
She says something unexpected so that’s why I said… Wht u would expect her to say…
It is frustrating to not feel appreciated. You are being a contributing member in the family and trying you best to fit in.
You must be feeling overworked… it’s not easy to work and do house chores