Suppose u stay at your relatives and do job⦠Then go to gym and then do pocha then dinner and then dishes and sweeping⦠What u will expect your aunt to say?
And what she will actually say/or what she say??
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Hmmmβ¦ sheβll say thanks for helping out with the chores. I guess.
qtrjdval @w8she8zjwbsyx8
What does she says?
She saidβ¦ Pocha saf se nhi lgati tumβ¦ I felt really badβ¦ I am. Giving efforts so that they donβt feel ki kam. Ni krti bilkulβ¦ But what about how I feelβ¦
qtrjdval @w8she8zjwbsyx8
Ignore herβ¦ This struggle sacrifice you are doing will give you resultβ¦i feel youβ¦ Sheβs a relative, sheβll act like oneβ¦ One way or otherβ¦ Focus on what you are there to do
I try to ignore⦠And i think thats the only way I can survive here⦠But sometimes I think why r relatives like that�
Like unke khud k bche h. Or mujse bdeβ¦ And his son also goes to gym and comes from there, she says bichara kitna thak jta hβ¦ Din bhr office ka kam phir gym m b thk jta hogaβ¦
qtrjdval @w8she8zjwbsyx8
I understandβ¦itβs their karmaβ¦some are blessed with parent like relativeβ¦i know you are strong and you will be alright
Yes I need to work on it⦠Thnk youu
qtrjdval @w8she8zjwbsyx8
You can vent or just talk to me whenever you feel likeβ¦i wish sheβll be a bigger person one day
I would love toβ¦
# Ayush # @aj_005
Bada bhaari kaam kar liyaβ¦
Ha aisa hi kuchβ¦ Gives no valueβ¦
qtrjdval @w8she8zjwbsyx8
I was annoyed at his commentβ¦but when i know this is the realityβ¦i feel sorry
Base Up @idol_type9
If I were youβ¦ I wonβt expect her to say anything to meβ¦ No expectations from themβ¦ What I did what my share of work in the house and I did itβ¦ Thats itβ¦ Nothing to overthink or expect in this situation. If I lived alone I would have anyhow done the same tasks or maybe more than these.
So it would be better to focus on other much imp matters of my life . thats it.
I was just trying to covey my thoughtβ¦
She says something unexpected so thatβs why I saidβ¦ Wht u would expect her to sayβ¦
It is frustrating to not feel appreciated. You are being a contributing member in the family and trying you best to fit in.
You must be feeling overworkedβ¦ itβs not easy to work and do house chores
