Soooooo it’s been an year since me and my boyfriend broke up. After that we started seeing each other as friends and to be frank we seemed closer than ever. However I still have some feelings for him but I moved on. Since vacation started I’ve been seeing him a lot with other friends and it’s getting harder and harder to deny the sexual tension between us. Sometimes I started to think about him in an intimate way and one day he confessed that he would like to have a secret sexual relationship. Like friends with benefits. I have been thinking about it and I want to say yes. And yes I know the internet says that there’s some risks to it like developing feelings and stuff but I feel like we can make it work. Ofc I will talk to him about ground rules. Like we’re still best friends and we will have casual sex from time to time but once we start going out with other people we stop.
What do you guys think?
It’s not a big deal. Bcz this is what I was looking for!
You miss that vibe Or overthinking about it?
i definitely think u shouldnt do this as he is ur ex . one never live in past . i understand the closeness and all but just come out of it . its a trap thats pulling u in . pls forget him and never get back , frnds after relstionship is never ever happening . dont do this . in the end u will hurt urself and i think somewhere it is hurting you coz u r confused and this is wat i am talking . ki dont let ur past ruin ur present . just become strong headed and let him go . u will fall for him . love has no rules ever . dont do this . u r messing ur self . just for some physical needs dont mess up ur emotions . coz physical wounds gets heales soon . but emotional wounds literally kills
Just don’t…it’s ain’t worth it…do u wanna get ur heart broken like for real…maybe u won’t be able to love anyone after this…it’s like repeating the same mistake again n again…please understand this,we get chance to do what’s right so don’t go the wrong again.
I’m looking for that too! If you are interested on it we can talk! I’m an city planner and I do gym and so on! If you are interested on it we can talk though! I’m 23 years old and still virgin so wanna explore things with the one who thinks like me!
Ping me there if you are up for friends with benefits