Someone please help me get over him 😩😩😩 His presence, his touch, his stupid laugh ughhh 

its easy if u r thinking to do then u can no issue
just engage with new people and make u interests

3am Thoughts

I got to know this guy from a dating app. I wanted to take things slow but he was very sure about dating me he assured me he will handle everything and insisted me to give it a try. So We started to date and dated for 9 days and all of a sudden he ghosted. He said his result for some exam he had given is out and he hasn't made it. Since then he stopped calling or messaging and started ignoring me. I tried to meet him to understand his situation but he isn't even meeting. He is talking to me all rude. And he is blaming me for his behavior. He replies to my text after 2-3 days never return/picks my calls and give any excuse like he isn't well or had slept. Does these signs means he is no more interested in me? I feel like I don't hold any value in his life and he is treating me as an option. Also I feel I dnt deserve this kind of ignorance and behavior. I get invested into relationships which eventually hurts me. Sometimes I feel I should become cold about loving people in my life. Or I should give up on dating as people nowadays opt to leave rather than solving issues. 

Anxiety

 I am really feeling sulky today. My bestfriend's sister is in ICU. We are in long distance friendship. I can't even call him because of my strict parents. Idk how can I heal him !!! Can someone help me ? 

Friends

My ex left me because he said I argued too much. I would bring up how he commented about my weight and also how he constantly stared at lingerie models. He left me abruptly and took the engagement back after 3 years of being together. How do I get over this?

Breakup

I am in an online friendship, and I've known this person for about two years. I've never felt so strongly about someone in my life, and I even think about marriage. Something about this crush feels different, genuine, passionate, but also somewhat distant. They don't usually open up to people (they are an INTJ, if that helps), but they have somewhat opened up to me, which I am especially grateful for, due to the fact that this isn't something they would normally do. They do kind of hint that this isn't a truly real relationship because it is online, which I understand, but at times this statement hurts me more than it should; I feel like I will never amount to anything more than an online friend. Sometimes I feel like giving up on this relationship, and I did talk to them once about how I truly really felt, as they never initiated conversation and we only talked with month or more long breaks. You might think that this demonstrates their inability to care about me, and although that could've been partly the case, they just never had a closer relationship, and online relations were more about work than play. Our conversations were also pretty deep, and they lasted hours into the night, but that may be because they have terrible insomnia. They felt really terrible about treating me this way, and from then they started to hang out with me a lot more often. Sometimes I felt like I was being pitied in some way, or that they didn't actually gaf, although that is probably my overthinking-mind speaking, because it's been around two months and they still hang with me more.
It's hard to pinpoint why I am sad, but I guess I'm just anxious about this relationship--treading vigilantly as to not make even one simple mistake. I don't want to lose them; I really, really don't. But if this never progresses any further, should I stop trying?

Love

I have a bf ..we are in long distance...our parents found out about this ...they told us not to get into commitments amd focus on our career....I can't betray my parents at the same time my heart doesn't want to loose him ..wt to do??
My parents are like wait for 3 years even then if u like him then proceed and till then remain friends..idk wt to do 
Please help

Boyfriend

Unworthy...!!

Hi !! I am a medical student..and I'm here to share my feelings or thoughts..i hope I'll make it understandable..Please, bear with me just in case...
 I can't understand why I'm being so unworthy and unwanted for the people I used to be most important.
I was dealing with depression during my relationship period, somewhat two years back. Constant mental and (sometimes) physical abuse made me to get it over with....I moved on from that phase and tried to connect with someone else.
Gradually,it worked... And he was very caring, understanding and so into me at the beginning. We used to talk alot, share alot, meet and spend time sometimes...
Then, he turned out to be very busy with his new work setup and I was very supportive of that...But still we used to talk or chat instead atleast for 5 minutes in a day...We both were sure and confident about ourselves as we have that level of understanding...
But now it looks like the tables has turned, we haven't talk (or even chat) for more than 3 months..I can't understand why?? I tried to talk so many times but the response was so cold...

I can't understand a damn thing, what the hell I did wrong....Why my loved ones keeps pushing me away...What should I do...!!! And now I'm getting that fear of losing myself back...I tried to divert my mind from that but, nothing is working.... And I'm trapped!!!!!


Conflict

Its been 7 months since my breakup. I still cant move on, I'm still waiting, 
Today I found out that he move on, and found someone, that broke my heart so much
The boy who told me that it's only you is now dating someone wlse, is moving on so easy?
Is dating a joke nowadays?
Is hurting someone else necessary because of your paste?
Why am I the one to suffer when I am not even wrong, why is it me crying, missing him, was loving someone truly, faithfully, honestly, wrong?????
That hurts ,that seriously hurts alot
The dream I saw with him and wished to make it true won't ever happen 
The I love you word he used to say it to me, now someone else hears it

I feel like my boyfriend is ignoring me. He's working night shifts n we almost don't talk at all.. I miss him all the time but it doesn't feel mutual. It seems like he doesn't miss/wants to talk to/meet me. I'm mess. Guys out there, please help me out.. is he really not interested in me anymore??

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