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@tuesy

Some days are just so hard.
I miss him a lot.
I just miss him that it becomes so hard for me to even hear his voice.
I don’t know how some people just decide things on their own and just move on without even saying anything, without even discussing.
He wanted to leave the relationship just as it is without even saying a word, i could sense that he was drifting away and everytime i tried to confront, he would just freak out, and then months later he would just reply YES, we cant be together.
I mean, he confessed then, i could have left you like that , which mostly guys do, but i decided to not do that, and in this he is too proud of himself.
He couldn’t even stand any lovable words !
It just kills me that i am kind of
friendzoned !
First time, i actually invested in a person and not in things.
Ugh, i hate the days when i just want to hug him.
Hope to get move on. 😕

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Hey honey,
I can understand what you are going through.
I have been going through this for a long time. I feel like hearing her voice once, hugging her one last time.
But she is gone. She does’t even care what i am going through. I don’t know if she is happy or not. But i guess she is.
I really feel disgusted.

@tuesy

Much much strength to you too.
We will get through this 🌟

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Sure we will

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Anonymous

Hey first of all, you are a beautiful writer and beauitful soul. I am so sorry this happened to you. You deserve better.
I know it will be tough now but You will move on. Give yourself time to grieve. Only when we give ourselves time to grieve are we able to truly move on.
Try diverting your focus. Focus on yourself.Remember that you deserve better.
Stay happy!!

@tuesy

Yes, will try that.
Thanku 🌟

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Anonymous

Anytime! I wish you all the best!

. @somesortofpanda

we all have moments like this. investing in a person is the riskiest. months of talking feels like ages and their absence just hurts. if you need to talk, just a text away. but just don’t feel low.

@tuesy

Thats true- it is the riskiest.
Yes i did. And didn’t expect anything in return.
Better now 🙂

. @somesortofpanda

Stay strong and just grow. Don’t worry. You’ll find people worth your time further ahead. And how are you ??

Sanket @sanket

Oye “EXAM” ??? It is still on its way, where are you with preps??

“It just kills me that i am kind of
friendzoned !” - Awww, welcome to the world of boys :P

@tuesy

Yeah i know, 3 days i study good,4th day i get demotivated. Lol😥
Prep not so good when my mind not right ! 😵
Didn’t study for the whole day, but now m much better.
Hahahaha, i knew someone might say this 😂

Sanket @sanket

It’s okay, 4th day must have been rough. I believe you have studied well enough during those 3 days. Be confident about your preparations.
You need to focus & put most of your time on the studies. These emotional lochas are very tough to handle and I will never be able to understand your situation, but you need to understand what needs to be done at the given moment, exam time study well.

Uh, just one thing, when you say, “which mostly guys do”, are you referring to boys, and does that means guys just walk out of the relationship? I do not agree with this, even girls exhibit such behaviour…

@tuesy

Yes ofcourse, every situation can be equally brought up by boys and girls. I agree.
M just telling here what he said to me- “ i could have stormed out like other boys do but i decided to stay with you”
He was comparing himself with other guys.

Sanket @sanket

Oh my bad, I interpreted it wrong
Anyways I assume your exam is in the next week, all the best
I hope I will be getting free health checkup in the future always 😁

@tuesy

Yea- next to next week.18th 🤞🏻
Hahaha- sure but i hope you never have to get through one. 😇

@tuesy

@sanket
That’s what i am telling you, problem occured continuously , page keeps on reloading, that is why I haven’t been able to reply since 22 😣
Yesterday only, reload didn’t happen but now too, it did 😪
Gosh it was frustrating, i guess we have been lengthening the chat there, thats why, i Am writing here !

I am fine sanket, me and his ghost we are having fun 😂
But m trying not to focus on this ghost !
Trying to study, exam after 40 days 🥶

How are you doing ? How is everything at home ? At work ?

Sanket @sanket

Oh, this site cannot handle such length threads perhaps! How about email? If you wish to then we can start an email thread - sanketoswal944@gmail.com

Happy to hear from you @tuesy, and on top of that it’s good to know that you have started preparing a good update
Can I ask how his birthday was for you, did he like the cake, if you don’t mind, I might be digging deep.

To be honest, I’m not ok, dull/frustrated to be precise, and neither the home environment is good. It is messy on my end 😪

@tuesy

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