so yesterday i told my mum that I was abused. After i tried to kill myself at school in the bathroom. She saved my life. How do I thank her for that? She didn’t judge me for what i did or what they did to me. She’s an angel how do i thank her?
also to add to the hell that is my life my sister also has recently been abused (choked, provoked and groped maybe more) and she didn’t tell me i hate how i found out. She’s getting so much special treatment to be looked after but no one cares what happened to me. No one cares and i just don’t know what to do or how to help my sister or live with myself after all that’s happened what the fuck do i do???
Simran @st1199
Hey!
I hope you did something to the bastard who did this to you.
Your mom will never judge. She will always help you because you are her child. She will not judge and there is nothing thanking her. Just go and hug her and give a kiss.
Sorry for what happened to your sister. Talk to her about how you felt she not telling you the circumstance. Maybe she had reasons not to tell and it’s better to clarify than assuming, right?
Why do you feel and what is the differentiation going between both of you?
I think the difference is my abuse was mental, hers was physical. I just don’t know how to communicate with them any more. Thank you for the advice though, I’ll try to talk to them
Simran @st1199
When something goes physically, it’s a trauma that can never be forgotten and because she has faced it by her hand, your parents feel that she does require support more than ever. She won’t be in a position to even let someone close to her because of what happened and it will haunt her for a very long time. She needs comfort right now.
You too, on the other hand, faced mental abuse and it too is difficult to handle when everything is rushing in your mind and you would have been frustrated I suppose. They will come to you also, they think that the Physical part is Important than the mental part which happens because we tend to ignore the mental thing.
I meant, communicate with your sister why she didn’t come to you or told you anything.
