So yesterday I asked the same question but noone replied, will try again, here it goes:
So there’s one guy who’s one of my friends but not that close, let’s call him Mosambi for now, so he told me something which was not new that he wants to be in a relationship with me, earlier when he used to say that he said “come in a relationship with me, i like you” but the moment I deny him (cz we were friends didn’t wanted to ruin it) he used to say “ohh bruh, I’m jk” it happened like many times… So this time also I took it as a joke, but by the way he was talking I didn’t felt he was joking(everytime) and even said me I’m not joking I do like you, but Idk what to do!!? He’s cute, hot and I do like him a little(not much) but I know I’ll grow feelings for him sooner or later but I don’t understand him maybe he’s joking rn also!?
Idk what to do? Anyone who’ll clear this mess??
You gotta communicate with him
I did, he said he do likes me, wants a relationship but Idk…
Just give it time
David Jones @fellowfriend
I think its just oxytocin nothing more that is triggering the effect. Its upto you what you want to do with it.
You think so…?
David Jones @fellowfriend
Yes I am quite sure about it.
Haa but iss age me sachha pyaar , jhootha pyaar , dono hi oxytocin ka hi byproduct hai . Aise to even hum sabhi hormones ka hi indirect resultant hai na . Point hai ki this is your age to experience .
Yeah I agree!!!
David Jones @fellowfriend
Thats why I have said in my first comment that you can do whatever you want. If you want to seek pleasure and experience then its your life, I was clearing the point that you asked “Is it love”, So I have told you its not.
What is stopping you to get into a relationship with him when you know henis a nice person?
I know he’s a nice person but all his past girlfriends were the super hot and I don’t stand a chance!!
Oh please. Hotness would not matter if someone just likes being with you . I think you should confess your feelings and take a risk , dekhte hai kya hota hai .
Ohk thanks for atleast making me feel special, I’ll do it!!!
Listen, i fell in love with a girl when she was in 10th. I was in 12th. She was my closest friend , and she supported me emotionally a lot . She denied my proposal like millions of times. I gave up for ally . It’s been 8 years since then , We are still in touch , she just makes fun of how i used to run behind her all the time .i have dated hottest of girls in my life , i got married last year m Honestly she was not that good looking , she is little fat these days . But do you know, all my ex hot girlfriends knows my only love was this fat , not so hot girl . It’s just only her who does not know .
Ohh God, this is so cute, I’m happy for you!!
After reading I’ll definitely give it a try!!!
Don’t be happy for me , i married one of those hot girl . I still sometimes call her when something bad happens in family . I wish it could be her as my wife but she isn’t .
It’s never about look darling , if you’ve fallen in love with someone for the kind of person they are .
I get it, I’ll give it try!!
I think he also doesn’t want to lose uh thts why he is saying he is jk… You should tell him ur feelings nd see where it goes,
You think so…?
