So when your parents make you meet the boy for arrange marriage , what do I say to him unn 5 minute ki conversation me ki wo mujhe reject krde ?

Nhi maan rahe na , tabhi to yaha aayi hu .

Jo bhi us ki chize ho, us ka opposite answer krna ... uski hobbies and all ka bhi opposite reaction dena !
Shyd ye kaam karjaaye

Ask him to do household chores and leave his parents after marriage if this works 😅
You can also give cold replies and show of not caring and you are very rough 😅

3am Thoughts

I am in a relationship. I have told my parents about it. I am 28 and soon turning 29. My partner loves me and is very nice but he wants to pursue his career first and then get married. My parents want me to get married asap. Also he hasn't told at his home about me. His family knows that I am just a friend. I can't force him to marry me. He wants to marry me after he has achieved things in life. And on the other hand my parents are after my life to know if he has informed at his home or not. And if not, they want me to move on and look further. 

Social Anxiety

Idk...i met one guy in past...we had fight...and i gave lots of chance but he used to repeat the same thing ...but when he left me ...i was shattered...am still
Cuz... yesterday his caring part was seen towards one aunty ....i liked tht...
Plus...he was sad when he saw me with someone else
I still miss him ...but at the same time i get those thoughts tht what he did to me ...we had flirty text...when i asked him to stop he...never talked to me then again he talked to me...i got tired ...now idk ...what to do 

Exhausted

I have a guy friend, whom I love very much, he doesn't know it.
He recently got marrried.
I always used to say to him that I won't talk to you after you get married.
So the day he told me he is getting married, i stopped initiating talking with him and also stopped sending reels.
I didn't even congratulate him for his wedding.
But he didn't try to talk to me either,he just sends me a reel or 2 in few days.
I miss talking to him, sometimes I think of texting him and just start being friends like before,but I don't, because I still love him and if I keep talking to him, I will never move on.

I think one sided love is the worst thing in the world, isn't it? 

Friends

Me and my boyfriend live far from each other now ,he moved in another state but we still talk.He had meet a woman that he hadn’t seen in 11 years and he was looking for a place to stay and she invited to her place to show him her house.I felt that night that something is wrong and I asked him if he had sex with her and he told me that he will answer to this question on another day that is not the right time and today I asked him again and he told me that No,they did not had sex but he just touched her breast in jacuzzi for 3,4 seconds because she told him that she has silicone and he was curious how the silicone breast implants feel (at touch I guess). Should I believe him that he didn’t had sex with her or no?is this normal that he wanted and touched her breast? I wasnt there and I dont know if i can believe that this was only a 3,4 seconds touch…he said that she did not take her bra off and this was only few seconds…can this be real or no?is this normal that he touched her breast because he was curious how silicone breast implants feel?i would appreciate an opinion….

Relationships

I broke up with someone approx 1 year back. It was a 6 year long distance relationship. And I broke up with him because I wanna get married and he didn't. Plus family didn't want to accept me.  Later I realised that he was toxic for me. He made me  learned that if I had to stay with him I have to agree with him in all respect. This toxic nature I realised that's why I broke up with up.
Recently a coworker praposed to me for marriage.i got scared but I kept my fear aside .I started dating him.just dating... He is really nice and caring. Today he said he loved me and my mind start getting scared . This baggage is stopping me to continue dating him. Every time I try to get pass my fear I got anxious. What to do! 

Anxiety

Maybe everything he said was right maybe it was the truth. I thought in my head that I was doing everything right that I was doing everything a girlfriend should do. I didn’t know that he saw me like any other female in the streets I didn’t know he felt unloved that much . The words he said to me hurt so bad as if I was get stab over and over again. My tears didn’t start to fall because of those words because to me there not true. My tears started to fall because those words came out of his mouth the one that I love. For that moment the way he talked to me the choice of his words made it seem like he actually didn’t care. That I was nothing to him . That’s all we want through was nothing and didn’t mean shit. Do we even know why we still together do we actually love each other or are we just sacred or being alone. For me I know my answer I love him and I want to be with him . But do he really want to be a with me I mean he says he do but does he really 
mean it . I know there was love there at once more then we both can handle . But now I feel that most of that love is gone . As if we would never be able to go back to how we once were. All that’s left is fights after fights no love . I just want to be happy that’s all I ever wanted 

Boyfriend

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months 2 days ago. He was my first boyfriend, and I think my first love. I let him cheat on me virtually 2 times before this as he promised me he would change, but he didn't so i called it quits for real. He wasn't the perfect partner, but we had fun together and spent a lot of time together. He helped me get through my first year of college. Sometimes we talked about getting married and having kids. It all felt so real, but he isn't the person i though he was. Because he hurt me. Again, and again he made decisions that he knew would hurt me. He tried to tell me he loves me, but I don't believe him anymore. So I put everything he gave me or reminds me of him a bag and i'm building up the courage to throw it away. Because I want to get ride of the hope that maybe we would get together again. He hurt me so badly, and multiple times I don't ever want that again. It's been hard to accept that all the good times we had together are sadly lies. But he's not mine and I don't want to be his. Right now it hurts really bad, and I want to call him and tell him i love him and i know he can change. But i don't know if he will ever change or if we wants to ever change. I even told my parents what happened, and I don't think he could ever show his face around here again. I did this because I know I can't let him hurt me again. I always heard breaks ups are hard, and now I understand. I'm going to miss the comfort and familiarity. I'm going to cry because of the memories we made. I'm going to be frustrated that he lied. But I also know that I'm going to be okay eventually. Letting go is so hard, but i'm trying. 

Breakup

Hi friends: 


I need to share what i am going through in my life. I lost my first husband before 2years. 

And before 1 year got married to Arjun. He is also a widower lost his first wife and blessed with a cute boy baby  with his first marriage. Now he is 6 age. 

Actually we both agreed to marriage as per family members happiness but even me and arjun not fully out of past life losses during we got married. 

But in past a yeae we both got well connected emotionally and mentally to each other but never connected physically as husband and wife. 

Before 2 days arjun asked my opinion about accepting him as full husband and wife.  ( means becoming husband and wide including physically )but he gave my own time to think.


But from that question past 2 days my mind is busy in thinking what is in his heart  because while marriage we both are in same mindset as he said he cant  have another lady in his first wife place. 

Even me in same mindset can't accept another male in my first husband. 



But Arjun is a sweet person and definitely cute and handsome but i feel guilty to accept him in my first husband place abd and feeling its betraying my first husband 


If i accept arjun fully as my husband is it betraying my first husband?


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