So when I was 19, it was 2014 I met my husband for the first time, everyone knows how teenage love is, he was of my age too but after some months there was this girl who came between us so we broke up but he kind of wanted me to be his friend still though I clearly said I can’t be friend with the person I love! But he still insisted that he can’t let go of me and that he needs me because his mom was going through rare disease! I’m a kind person I stayed even though it was hurting me! So he was in relationship with this other girl and she never liked me, she gave him a choice to choose me or her! Which I never gave when we were in a relationship! So he left her for me! He said he would choose friendship over love! And that girl ghosted him for months! After so many months he proposed me and I said yes obviously lol but soon after that next month that bitch kept coming back and ruining my relationship! Cut short skipping to 2020 I got married to him, he moved on from her long back! But idk why a part of me stalks that ex! I mean i just couldn’t get rid her out of my head! It’s like a part of me holds on to something i don’t know about!! And it hurts my soul when I see her pictures! Even though i try so hard not to see her IG picture! I don’t know what to do to stop myself to even think about her! I don’t even know why I do that to myself!
Sometimes it’s hard to move on. You need some sort of justification or validation of how you’re better or what you should keep a close watch on for future.
So it is absolutely fine. It is just a little sadistic pleasure we all have from time to time. As long it doesn’t harm your current relationship with your husband or self. It’s just fine. More power to you :)
First of all, congratulations babe !! Seee just chill out … I dont seee any readon to be insecure about . At the end , You won girl . So just relax … Its better if u just block her from all your social media and move on.
It is possessiveness about your husband thinking that she might reach to him. But you need to understand you’re the one who stayed with him all the times and he knows it well and never chooses anyone rather than you. Always think he achieved you by setting her aside and he never goes back. You already have what you have desired for and why you look back which never going to happen. He left her because she is worse and you’re the best and always believe in this and make yourself comfortable.
