So today was another day for my in laws to make me feel like an inferior race… Cause only their race is great and All their traditions are great… And I will never be accepted… And they Hope my daughter doesn’t get my features… And they don’t love her as much as they would if she was a boy… Cause boys are better than girls… And I am just so tired of them giving there opinion on my life and my relationship to my husband or daughter… So tired of Them not respecting the boundries my husband and I have set…
Don’t let the negative and their perspective change U. Idk ur race or the in law’s but they got it all wrong. Girls are much more prettier then boys and yes they should at least respect that ur their daughter in law and the boundaries U have set.
I feel what’s important in this kind of marriage, where in-laws are troublesome, is to have a supportive husband. Who will defend you. And take a stand for you even if it’s infront of his own parents. At the end you married HIM, not his entire family.
Look, i suggest you talk this out to your husband.
And ignore them. They are toxic af. And move away from them. Cause they will continue to pinpoint your race even if its a boy or a girl. And honestly, you wouldn’t want your kids to grow around people so narrow-minded and toxic right?
Suppose, look, if it turns out to be a babygirl, what do you think could happen?
They wont magically change their mindset and love her like she is supposed to. They would rather put her thru hell. Shower hate and pinpoint her mistakes. They would create weaknesses in her and that would give her childhood trauma when she turns older.
And also, you can’t survive around them.
I think its time your husband talks to his folks and put an end to it.
Stay strong. All is gonna be okay:)