So today was another day for my in laws to make me feel like an inferior raceā¦ Cause only their race is great and All their traditions are greatā¦ And I will never be acceptedā¦ And they Hope my daughter doesnāt get my featuresā¦ And they donāt love her as much as they would if she was a boyā¦ Cause boys are better than girlsā¦ And I am just so tired of them giving there opinion on my life and my relationship to my husband or daughterā¦ So tired of Them not respecting the boundries my husband and I have setā¦
Donāt let the negative and their perspective change U. Idk ur race or the in lawās but they got it all wrong. Girls are much more prettier then boys and yes they should at least respect that ur their daughter in law and the boundaries U have set.
I feel whatās important in this kind of marriage, where in-laws are troublesome, is to have a supportive husband. Who will defend you. And take a stand for you even if itās infront of his own parents. At the end you married HIM, not his entire family.
AgreešÆ
Look, i suggest you talk this out to your husband.
And ignore them. They are toxic af. And move away from them. Cause they will continue to pinpoint your race even if its a boy or a girl. And honestly, you wouldnāt want your kids to grow around people so narrow-minded and toxic right?
Suppose, look, if it turns out to be a babygirl, what do you think could happen?
They wont magically change their mindset and love her like she is supposed to. They would rather put her thru hell. Shower hate and pinpoint her mistakes. They would create weaknesses in her and that would give her childhood trauma when she turns older.
And also, you canāt survive around them.
I think its time your husband talks to his folks and put an end to it.
Stay strong. All is gonna be okay:)