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@annawithsadness

So today my boyfriend joked/ pranked me that he was gonna leave me, I have abandonment issues and I immediately got really anxious and started crying. Instead of talking to me or saying sorry, he is ignoring me and talking to his friends. I tried confronting him but he said I’m just overthinking and it’s not that big of a deal he was just joking, he is downplaying my crying I guess
I know I should break up and just move on, but it’s seriously not that easy, it been 2 years and it’s hard to just let go of everything… I don’t know what to do, I hate everything

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@anxious

i think you should talk to him before taking an action make him understand what you are going through and if he thinks you are over reaction then he is not the one for you

@annawithsadness

I am trying to talk, but he’s seriously ignoring me… Yeah i guess he isn’t, but it’s really hard to let go. I guess it’s because I love him and I’m too attached

@anxious

you are just attached because its been too long just figure it out if you really love him and give yourself some time

@annawithsadness

Thank you so much

@anxious

just know one thing that you deserve something who respects and understand you

@annawithsadness

Thank you so much, it really means alot to me

@anshikasoni

Your bf is really toxic just tell him that u want break up if he really cares about you he will change or ask for forgiveness

@annawithsadness

I guess that’s the only option left with me now…

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Anonymous

Yeah go now and we are here to cheer you up

@annawithsadness

Thank you so much

@annawithsadness

I seriously can’t believe I’m getting more love and comfortable from People I haven’t met than the one that claims to love me
thank you everyone who’s helping me, I really do appreciate it, I wish all the happiness toward y’all

@anshikasoni

We too❤️

@anxious

i am girl too and i broke up with my gf few days ago and i really think people who dont understand you dont deserve your love and respect

@annawithsadness

Everyone deserves to be understood and loved and so do I

@anxious

that’s my girl

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Anonymous

Just don’t make any hasty decisions. But ya I will say you should leave him if that’s the case.

Sanket @sanket

Wait, what? Why do you have to break up and move on? If it really was just a prank then let the disturbance settle down on both sides and things will return back to normalcy.
Instead disconnect for few days, then approach him and say clearly what and how this prank has affected you. Breaking up is clearly not the solution here, he might be angry with you as well for some reason.

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