So, today i took a difficult decision to phase myself out my best friend 's life (i am definitely not her best friend anymore). Yes, I’ve been crying since the morning and it doesn’t feel right but i think it is best for both of us. She doesn’t value me as much she used to do, i don’t think it’ll affect her whether i am there or not either. It’s gonna be a painful process, but i guess it has to be done :(
Sorry to hear that. It must be painfully for you, but have you tried to talk with her about this.
We’ve been fighting alot for the last 2 months, we recently had a very big fight and she said things that you just wouldn’t say to someone you love. She even said that she’ll start pushing me away. I don’t think I’d ever say that no matter how bad things got. So it’s better to just stay out, maybe then she’ll be happy.
Ohh sorry to hear that. If you think the same way then it’s good to take a break from these things, let things calm down. See if she messages you after some days, if she doesn’t, you try messaging her, let her know how you felt about the things she said.
I know it’s hard to do these things I can understand. But if the friendship is worth it we have to try .
I don’t feel the same way, i love and adore her way too much. I’ve done literally everything possible to make her happy but i don’t think it was worth alot in her eyes. Anyway, it’s in a way a test too. If she cares, she’ll definitely notice what’s happening otherwise she won’t and I’ll have to make peace with it. In the beginning she made me feel very loved and wanted but then she stopped, like she didn’t need me anymore
I get it, it is hard. But as you said if she notices she’ll come to you and ask what’s going on and if not you’ll have a closure for yourself so that you can move on with your life. This whole process is going to be a bit hard but it’s okay.
Something in me is always gonna hope that she notices. But even if she doesn’t, i just want her to be happy, I’ve always wanted her to be happy with or without me. She showed me that i am capable of being loved and wanted even if it was just for a short time.
Good to hear that, you are a good friend, a good person, keep it that way the right person will find a way to you until then take care of yourself. There’ll be a lot of situations like this in the future to where this same situation can arise but do what you are doing now let go, if the person notices, he/she’ll come back.
This is not the first time I’ve decided to do this and it probably won’t be the last time either. But letting go of someone you love is heartbreaking. But anyway, thank you for listening to me :D
I’ve been through this
It’s hard
Like it breaks you from inside, but this was better for you
And crying helps so cry it out
and from tomorrow don’t shed a tear for that best friend, that person doesn’t deserve it
Being a little selfish and fighting for your self respect isn’t wrong
And trust me, life’s so more than that, after I left my toxic best friend, I learnt a lot of new things
Made new friends and life’s so much better now than those daily fights
not giving you any false hopes but I hope you’ll get through this
Stay strong
I can’t stop crying, I’ve been crying daily for a long time now because everytime i remember how it used to be it hurts. It’s just unbelievable how quickly things went south, i hate it.
