So this is about the guy that I have been dating for the past 1 and a half year .Its a long distance relationship so we have met only thrice in this span of time . Everything was going good or so I thought it was untill I started to realize that he’s hardly emotionally available for me . I was pretty sure that he’s my ride or die but now his lack of affection towards me makes me wonder if he has the same amount of love that I have for him. Infact he sometimes make these very confusing statements when I ask him about how are we gonna manage the relationship when he will go further away for studies like " just go with the flow " , "anyway we aren’t getting married so stop thinking about it and enjoy the present ". I mean obviously I know we are just in our 20s and no one’s thinking about getting married and stuff but don’t u think it’s really absurd way stating it to the girl you are dating at that point . It like putting a time limit on the relationship like we already have a dead end infront of us and it makes me feel like he has taken me for granted . I just don’t know what to do .I genuinely love him but i don’t see the same energy from his side . It has left me in a very confusing state .I feel trapped emotionally.
Guys i would really appreciate some suggestions on what I can do .
Tbh it seems like he’s dating for fun
But why would he be in a long distance relationship for fun ? That’s what confuses me the most. If he wanna have fun won’t he date someone he can have around anytime he wants to and not someone 2000 miles away
maybe u can tryna ignore him for some time and then see his reaction and if he cares or not…
Honestly i tried . But he just made me feel guilty about it like my actions will affect the relationship but never bothered to asking me about the reason behind it
if he doesnt care then u shuld focus on urself too…ikk u love him and it’d be hard but well for u u come first…so yeaaa
first try and ignore him to see his reaction and think abt this situation deeply…
or maybe u both can take a break uk…
Ikr 🥺
I mean it’s long distance relationship so you don’t know what his doing even if he’s cheating on you you’ll never know unless you trust
I’m not trying to scare you or anything but long distance relationships can be hard unless the two trust each other
I’ve never dated anyone but for me I feel being in your 20s doesn’t mean you can’t get married or anything but you can’t just date anyone especially when you’re in that age tire discovering your self or your studying soi think you should focus on yourself or date seriously cuz dating for one always end up with a heartbreak
M not saying getting married in your early 20s is wrong or something .M just talking about his point of view and somewhere mine as well coz career comes first na but that doesn’t mean u should be making the other person feel guilty about wanting more than a dead end relationship. Honestly m not the casual date kinda person so it’s get tough on me to know that my partner is not so serious about the relationship
