So there’s this guy who told me had a crush on me but now he is saying that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship.
The reasoning he provided is as follows:-
yk well…
u see how we are rn right?
CHill always having fun and like we aint have anything between us to make ourselves
awkward…
BUT
Once I have a psychological image of u as my girfriend I would never ever see
u the way I see u rn.
Same goes with you.
It ends the non-awkward feeling and I feel like once we in a relationship
we wont even talk like we talk rn.
Like u would never talk/have fun/spend time with ur boyfriend like you would
with ur friend…
and tbh people are more open towards friends than their partners.
Now a question may arise why did I make it clear bw us?
That was just to have a clear idea on how we both feel bout each other.
Cause once we truly know we both love each other
there is no need of a tag of couples and all that shit.
Like bro… these tags are only for other people to know
we know how we both feel bout each other then why go and add ranks
to it. Like I know u love me… You know I love you…
Why else should we tell anyone else if we love each other or not?
its clear between us and that’s what matters…
Idk if it makes sense for u
but that is how I feel…
like relationships ends the essence of being a friend and having fun
thats what I dont wanna loose
This is what he sent me. I don’t have a crush on him or i like or love him.
I sent this here just to get what are your views
I guess…but he asked me to be his gf before idk if he did that to know i love him or not…but he did
Thank you☺️
So he doesn’t see a girlfriend as a friend. That is weird
That’s what I was thinking too
Ikr…that’s why i asked for others views
Karthi @venkatkarthi67
Since he approached as gf first, what if he end up in wrong intentions after u you are friends. It will hurt u a lot rit?
I see…thank you for telling 🙂
Alright pal
Sanket @sanket
Stop thinking, enjoy and cherish the friendship
I am not going to ruin anything we have rn…but maybe I’ll be more aware and conscious about my steps😁😁