girlonline @iicarusbabe
So there’s this guy I’ve been friends with for about 2 months now and he’s not even from my class. He’s a lil bit flirty but he has told me that he doesn’t like me that way but my friends feel like he actually has a small crush on me. So we’ve been talking almost every single day and he has a lot of friends both from his class and from his school. He talks to me a lot and I get attached too soon. And I kinda feel possesive about this one girl he’s friends with from his class. She has a boyfriend. And it’s like she was his friend first so I’m not supposed to feel like this but I can’t help it 🤧
I don’t want to feel this way idk wat to do. This feels wrong.
Its okay to feel until you hurt yourself or him
girlonline @iicarusbabe
It’s more like we’ve been friends only for a short period of time now and I’m already feeling attached and at the end I’m the one who’s gonna suffer
Problem is your attachment, now ask yourself what you want him or just a good friend whom you want to spend time
Because you are attached because you need someone
How old are you
girlonline @iicarusbabe
I feel like it’s also because of my previous friendship. So I had a guy friend with whom I talked to 24x7 and then one day he told me he has feelings for me and then things got awkward and then I hurt him and we never talked after that and all of it made me so vulnerable.
girlonline @iicarusbabe
18
Its okay because not everytime we are ready with everyone
Make friends, know why you are good enough. Boys follow girls not girls. If you like him make feel special will propose you
we can’t help who we fall for but we can control the hardships.
1.) know that one day he will have a serious relationship that may not be with you.
2.) know that he will have people around him take an interest to him.
3.) know that he and you both maintain the right to say NO to each other.
4.) know that it may just end in friendship.
just be prepared that sometimes things will make you feel hurt and sometimes you’ll feel loved and heard but always be prepared to feel the up’s and downs that come with your platonic friendship with him.
this is such a beautiful learning experience 😃
Prabhakar M N @mnpsatan13
Attraction isn’t a choice, it’s an emotion
