
So there is this guy i started dating in november. And now since the situation is not getting any better due to this pandemic and virus, i am a little doubtful about this. And i really like this guy. We started talking less and less . And now i feel ignored sometimes. Should i confront ? Idk what to do

He called me today we talked a bit. It was kinda confusing. He called me after like 4 days. 

You should know that if he has opted something that is keeping him very busy, even then, if one sees a person as someone important, they definitely make time. Do not keep waiting on him. Talk to him and communicate what you want. 

Dont wait for anybody..Life is so big..life is family,life is adventure,life is spending time with family,life is social,life always flows with nature so go ahead and try to make your dreams true in life..dont stuck at one place.
Best wishes

Confusion

I’ve been waiting for him to message me since last night. Been keep waking up every hour I’m hoping that he messaged but nothing.. I’m so tired. Should I even go to work or skit it today too

Breakup

A month ago I left my boyfriend who I’ve been with for almost 8 years. It was my choice to leave, but when I did, I found out that he was talking to his ex. 
I wanted to leave him for so many reasons before I found out about her, but... now that I know I was easily replaced, my head is completely fucked up. Why didn’t he want me? What did I do wrong? Why does no one love me or care about me?

I moved back home, and now when I cry my own mom ignores me and leaves the room just like he did. Am I expecting people to care about me too much? Is this life? If so, I don’t want it. It hurts too much 

Lonely

Yesterday something crazy happened, I was with my friends and we played some Holi and last night I consumed a lot of alcohol. I was so drunk that I hardly remember anything. Today morning when I got up I was in my undies and one of my guy friend who is also my crush was sleeping beside me. I remember faintly that we kissed last night. Idk what happened after that but as I was in my underwares I guess something must have happened. Idk what to do? I am still feeling dizzy and have headache. Should I talk with him? He is still sleeping. I talked with my best friend she said to talk with him. I'm soo confused and irritated. 

Relationships

I’m heartbroken. I’ve been in a relationship for over a year & I literally did everything for this guy. I’m someone who deals with anxiety & depression & so anytime I’ve been depressed & not behaving in a way he likes he says really hurtful things to me whereas when he gets in that zone I always act with kindness & love. Recently we got into an argument & I said either you continue on that argument or you keep me in your life. Which meant that I didn’t care about being right, I just wanted that argument to stop. He turned around and said he would rather pick the truth. This hurt me.. I literally had to point it out to him that he should be apologising for what he just did and then I got a robotic sorry.. our argument further escalated and he said a lot of things to me including mocking me for crying.. I disconnected the phone & continued to cry.. he called me twice & then he texted me saying he won’t call me unless I do. We’ve not spoken since, he is absolutely fine whereas my world feels like it’s crashing down. He’d rather stick to his ego than keep me in his life.. and I’m done running after him.. he does this all the time. I just hoped that I mattered but I guess not. 



So guys I am in love with a guy. Our relationship is very good. Problem here is not the guy, but our family. He is my Grand mother's brother's son. We really love each other alot. There's no age gap between us. That's the reason we could connect each other alot.Our families wont accept us because of family relations.
Any suggestions what to do??
Please help 🥺


i had a guy friend we used to talk a lot then gradually we came too close and started sharing our feelings with each other after kuch months i fell in love with him as i never believed in these kind of stuff like love or something but i started having feelings for him , i shared it with him and found ki he also had same feelings but we were not ready to convert things into relationship too fast so we decided to know each other more deeply. Now , everything was going cute... one day we had some misunderstanding between us which was due to a chat with my girl friend so i just cleared it all and he understood what all happened after that the things became normal.
 ab ek din we were on call and he shared with me ki i like my best friend since 2 years and started praising her i was like okay and had feelings ki maybe not more than me hehehe so i didn't comment further. and then i didn't feel the same vibes from him which i used to get from him before i asked many times ki kya hogaya so he says my mood is not high these days so it was completely alright ab the next day he asked for virtual stuff moreover virtual sex i said no its not possible wo sab smjha and then one day he said i won't be able to talk coz i have to focus on my studies etc etc and now i don't want to rise your hopes and i never wanted a relationship i had a covo with my sister she said relationships never work and i might try being like my ex ( his ex ditched him long before) and then he continued ki merese nhi hopaaegaa uske jaise banna neither my ethics point at that way. after saying this i was confused kyunki next to next day he again texted me ki talk to me then we had a talk and then after that idk why he blocked me from everywhere. I M REGRETTING KI WHY DID I SHARE THAT BOND WITH HIM JISSME KABHI TOH DONO TARAF SE SAME EFFORTS THE BUT AFTER THAT ONLY ONE SIDED... I REALLY WAS IN LOVE AND STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT I AM UNABLE TO ACCEPT THAT HE IS GONE, whenever we used to talk i used to ask ki " do you still feel the same as i feel for you and he always said YESS and mene humesha ussee bola ki sab mujhse duur chale gaye .. please tum mat jaanaa me seh nhi paaungi and tab bhi he said ki i will never leave youuu sweetheart" JUST HOPING KI HE WILL MESSAGE ME AGAIN AND THAT TIME I WON'T LET HIM GO. I REALLY DON'T HAVE FRIENDS I WAS INTO HIM FOR SO LONG AND PREVIOUSLY ALSO MY FRIENDS WERE ALWAYS BUSY IN MAKING THERE LOVE LIFE SO I DISTANCED MYSELF FROM THEM. I AM REALLY CONFUSED BARELY INTERESTED IN OTHER STUFFS. (ik this post is quiet long but i poured out my feelings)


My boyfriend and I broke up/took a break whatever u wanna call it, and in that time I slept with someone else I know I’m a horrible human being and I feel like shit about it and regretted it instantly. The breakup was mutual but when I slept with someone else it made me realize that my bf is who I wanted to be with were kinda back together now it’s not official but I know if I tell him it’ll be done he won’t be able to get past it but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do to tell him or is what happened during our break just between myself and I. He would never encounter this person either so I’m not worried about that but idk if I should tell him because if I do all it would do is hurt his feelings and he would never get over it or it would take a really long time idk. We’re in a good place right now, should I tell him or leave it be. I know I suck please refrain from negative remarks I know what I did was wrong. We were broken up for like a month for reference and we’ve been dating almost a year now. 

The never initiated conversation... 
So it goes like...  We've been in the same school, same class and never talked.. So 13 years in the school... Just being aware of the fact that he exists.. Also we shared birthdays... Might have wished e/o at times.. Nothing more than that... I had never felt anything like that for any guy... 2 years ago we made a mere eye contact... And damn it I haven't ever been able to forget that... Idk it felt like something so unusual... He literally made every other guy unattractive... Since 2 years I haven't been able to get over him... He's on insta though... But what's the point of following when it will again get paused as a mere acquaintance... Idk what it was but i feel some connection with him... Like I ain't able to make decisions... Keep thinking him... Mind you I was a bright student and so is he... But i haven't been able to focus on anything lately... I genuinely want him to do well in whatever he wants..  I wish the best for him... He's in my prayers... Idk what is this... As soon as I try to distract my mind from him it just intensifies... In between I heard about him getting into a relationship... I felt bad... But why so?... I must focus on my studies.. Also I m trying so hard... But every other day that thought pops out..  I m preparing for an exam so no way of social interaction... Stay in a room and just doing nothing... I feel lifeless... My career would end if I do not study... But no f*in thing is getting to my nerves... I should be studying like anything rn but here I am doing something completely non relevant... But i need to do something about this... Please give honest suggestions keeping your self in my place... I don't want to hear 'go and study' 'forget it ' and all... Coz I ain't able to that's why I am writing it here... 

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