So recently I made a friend who is legit exactly like me not completely but yeah he is liltle older than me maybe like 3 years difference he genuinely motivates me in a different way and I like it I mean am I in love no probably not but I do want his attention because he is my only friend who understands my jokes and everything like we are same mentality but I don’t think he thinks the same he got many friends at last when he is done talking with everybody he talks with me or else he ignores my msges I feel like I am the one who tries to talk at first I mean like also recently alot of things happened in my life and I thought god really sent somebody for me but I think it’s not true bruh I’m soo stupid ahhh and I’m not a kind of girl who could easily want attention or something like I’m not like that I just don’t know what to do should I just stop msging him and ignore him as he does all the time or just talk to him without thinking about my self respect?? He also made fun of me when I pointed this out about him I’m just soo confused
Rainnnly @rainnnly
please don’t look down on yourself, you are too precious!
if he is not the one, you’ll meet the true one day!
just answer his text if you need it, when he ignores you, don’t search for him. Just text him normally. It’s just my advice, you don’t have to lower yourself to get someone who doesn’t think about you. 😉
Thanks you dear for your advice you’re right actually but I’m just feeling lonely again he was the one who could make my day better and entertain
but he ignores most of the time:(
Rainnnly @rainnnly
aww :( how about finding someone new through social media? or join some random groups? or maybe you can find friends by playing online games
These friends aren’t always genuine my ex best friend was one of my online friends but recently we broke up as she started to hurt me soo much I fell in depression I was starting to feel very lonely and they this boy came into my life you know he genuinely knows about it but he is just taking it too casual
Rainnnly @rainnnly
ahh I see, when you are feeling down, he comes and makes everything seems better. It must be hard to let him go since he is the one who gives you attention at the moment :(
but you must remember things like he has his own life and cannot be on phone all the time. people can get bored or uninterest easily. for him, maybe his friends are more matter. It’s harsh, I know and I am sorry but it’s the truth.
It can be hard and easy when you search for friends, you shouldn’t get too attached to them because everyone has a different opinion and preference. I think you should search for another friend, how about your school friend or colleagues?
You’re right I can’t force him to talk with me and yeah definitely he got his own life and it’s his choice whom to talk with I’m just you currently in very hard situation that I might can’t explain but yeah thanks for taking your time and giving me advice really appreciate it
Rainnnly @rainnnly
no problem, please don’t push yourself too hard
