So my boyfriend of 3 months is asking me to get physical, i have no issues with it if i’m in love & i’m sure about the person, but 3 months are quite early for me, he gets frustrated sometimes & i’m not sure yet if i love him or i’m just attached, if he doesn’t talk to me for hours i feel weird inshort i can’t let him go & he is also not letting me leave, but a tiny part of me knows that we are drifting away bcz of the lack of physical intimacy.
I want to end things but i am not able to do it.
Any advices?
Btw i’m above 20 so it’s not a teenage-ish issue.
& yes we have discussed it many times but he gets frustrated a bit every single time, i also said if you want these stuff so bad you can be with someone else but then he changes the topic that i want only you, but i don’t think so i’m thatttt imp. to him, he talks alot but idk why i don’t feel it.
Be ware of him guys do use girls physically and then leave
Meri vaali ne toh almost 16 month mana kra the ki mujhe touch mat Krna 🥲 and I was like theek hai bhai I just love you
Tum jo bologi vo hi hoga 😂
And this resulted in me hesitating in holding her hands but yeah do remember
something guys are in love but due to lust and all they end up asking physical intimacy in a really weird and sus manner
Maybe that guy loves you but due to some hormonal changes vo boldeta hoga if it’s that way you might lose him breaking up
But kya pata vo tumhe use krrha ho 😐
Do one thing usko abhi boldo ki aaj se 4 mahine kuch nahi hoga physically and tell him ki pyaar krte ho toh 4-5 mahine ruk jao and see if he agrees then he loves you but if he denies then he’s a asshole cause if a guy is Lovin a girl he won’t leave just cause of this silly reason
Yeah he says he can wait & all but i think why would a guy wait for a girl if he can have other girls.
It’s all messed up.
Ahh can you answer me one things
Tum dono ko mile hue kitne din hue
And when did you guys started dating ?
Relationship me toh 3 month hue but how much did he took to come into realtioinship ?
Like kitne time pehle mile the time real answer lie in this thing
Kanak @ana02
I have replied to a post on young love, check that one out on my profile please.
Secondly, you shouldn’t do something you don’t want to do. You don’t have to do anything, except maybe love yourself, and be hydrated, and use moisturizer.
Say that clearly to your boyfriend, “I am not ready so don’t you f*cking force/pressurize me. I’ll tell you when I’m ready. And if you can’t wait, go ahead, get lost 🙄🖕🏻”.
I’m such a badass though 😂😂😂
Our gut feeling is always right… and we always have the answer! But either you wait for someone to spill it out for you or you can be smart enough to make it out yourself.
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