So my boyfriend of 3 months is asking me to get physical, i have no issues with it if iβm in love & iβm sure about the person, but 3 months are quite early for me, he gets frustrated sometimes & iβm not sure yet if i love him or iβm just attached, if he doesnβt talk to me for hours i feel weird inshort i canβt let him go & he is also not letting me leave, but a tiny part of me knows that we are drifting away bcz of the lack of physical intimacy.
I want to end things but i am not able to do it.
Any advices?
Btw iβm above 20 so itβs not a teenage-ish issue.
& yes we have discussed it many times but he gets frustrated a bit every single time, i also said if you want these stuff so bad you can be with someone else but then he changes the topic that i want only you, but i donβt think so iβm thatttt imp. to him, he talks alot but idk why i donβt feel it.
Be ware of him guys do use girls physically and then leave
Meri vaali ne toh almost 16 month mana kra the ki mujhe touch mat Krna π₯² and I was like theek hai bhai I just love you
Tum jo bologi vo hi hoga π
And this resulted in me hesitating in holding her hands but yeah do remember
something guys are in love but due to lust and all they end up asking physical intimacy in a really weird and sus manner
Maybe that guy loves you but due to some hormonal changes vo boldeta hoga if itβs that way you might lose him breaking up
But kya pata vo tumhe use krrha ho π
Do one thing usko abhi boldo ki aaj se 4 mahine kuch nahi hoga physically and tell him ki pyaar krte ho toh 4-5 mahine ruk jao and see if he agrees then he loves you but if he denies then heβs a asshole cause if a guy is Lovin a girl he wonβt leave just cause of this silly reason
Yeah he says he can wait & all but i think why would a guy wait for a girl if he can have other girls.
Itβs all messed up.
Ahh can you answer me one things
Tum dono ko mile hue kitne din hue
And when did you guys started dating ?
Relationship me toh 3 month hue but how much did he took to come into realtioinship ?
Like kitne time pehle mile the time real answer lie in this thing
Kanak @ana02
I have replied to a post on young love, check that one out on my profile please.
Secondly, you shouldnβt do something you donβt want to do. You donβt have to do anything, except maybe love yourself, and be hydrated, and use moisturizer.
Say that clearly to your boyfriend, βI am not ready so donβt you f*cking force/pressurize me. Iβll tell you when Iβm ready. And if you canβt wait, go ahead, get lost πππ»β.
Iβm such a badass though πππ
Our gut feeling is always right⦠and we always have the answer! But either you wait for someone to spill it out for you or you can be smart enough to make it out yourself.
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