So my bf is a telugu speaker. Today he texted me in tamil. He asked me a morn pic. I said no I look ugly. He kept saying pls. So I sent him my shitty face. He texted " Why did u send this I'm scared in tamil". I got hurt so I started seenzoning him. Later he kept texting me. So I kinda yelled at him a lot. He then told he sent " Why were u scared to send me this pic". He told me just because you are mad you can't abuse me right. So technically I abused him now. That word kinda hurts. I didn't tell him since I don't wanna hurt him anymore. Without my consciousness I've been distancing him today. What do I do? It really hurts to be said when u r an abuser. I'm confused now. What should I do?

suraj

It's just am hurt and am hiding it. I can't even text him properly lol. It's too much for me. Or am I just sensitive????

I dont even want to talk again tho. After him labeling me as an abuser right. I'm not sure tho.

I did. His mom cried today it seems. So he's upset over that. 

Boyfriend

No thoughts left. All satisfied with what's happening. And yet too much pain in heart. He gave me so much pain with his attitude of showing being nice everytime but never doing self effort. He is giving me so much pain. Not bcz of doing something. But bcz of not doing anything. I dont know how someone can be like pather. Seems he never miss me. How can he control his feelings emotions. He has no emotions at all. Pther hai bilkul. And pather jo kuch bhi ni krta hai and kuch na krne ka behave krke jo innocent picture depict krta hai it give too much pain. All is set in my life. We have done the breakup. I am moving good in my caree, health, socially everything. But bcz of him, I feel like I am eaten up from inside somewhere. He made me lose my self worth. I feel minus zero bcz of him despite of achieving a lot in my career. I feel my no value in front of him. Just bcz of his killer attitude of doing nothing. Just silence. It eats me. Makes me react. I control myself. Tries ignoring him. But after 1 week or 10 days, same starts panic attacks. 

3am Thoughts

I started talking to a guy in 2020 then we got really closed then i told him that I like him a lot and he was not sure. I was okay with it. But i didn't stop talking to him, he also liked to talk to me then in June he told me he likes me too. But still we were not dating and we talk for almost whole day morning to night and i used to ask him if he likes me why he is not sure to date me. He was afraid that he will not be able to give me time and attention but I was so attached to him that I didn't stop talking to him then after 3,4 months we started dating but as the time passes he got busy with work and his dreams and from talking to whole day we cut it to 1or 2 hr barely and he being not around me is messing my head. I overthink a lot and things are changing bw us. I literally wait for his replies. It feels like i need his attention.idk what to do. I think about it whole day.

Overthinking

im just really confused. There's alot going on rn. I failed in one my subjects at college and i havent told anyone about it yet (gave it for re-evaluation). As if tht wasnt stressing me out enough i always feel like im not doing enough at my internship although i love working there but im just so stressed with everything. They have offered me a job but if i dont recover from that exam which i failed, im afraid ill loose the opportunity. On top of tht im going through a relationship crisis. I've always wanted to be in a relationship but now that i am in one and have been in for 3 years, now im not sure if this is what i want. I love him but i'd rather just be married and settled than going through all the ups and downs of the relationship. Im a muslim and have many restrictions (my parents know about him which makes me even more cautious about not doing anything to hurt them). Im just overwhelmed at the moment.

Stress

I get overwhelmed when a guy gives me too much attention. So there's this guy who started talking to me online. He is friends with my other friend so that's why I was chatting with him. But then I realized that he is too clingy. We aren't even in a relationship and this guy texts to me as if we're a couple. I've tried to ignore his texts since I am not the kind to always text and reply but he is so persistent and a big chatterbox. He's been talking about me all the time to my other friend, telling her that 'I' am acting weird, I was fine talking to him late at night the other day and now I don't even reply to his texts. He also says to them that he likes me and he wants to go for a movie with me after the lockdown ends. I barely know this guy and tbh I can't find the 'click' with him that I usually want to have in a relationship. I've been ignoring him and even restricted him on instagram. I can't block him because when the college reopens it's gonna be weird. Talking to him is exhausting. He just wants to talk about food and constantly calls me with nicknames. He texts me everyday with 'wyd' I am so irritated. When I asked a friend about this situation, as to what I can do, she starting laughing at me. Some friends that know him, say he is a nice guy and they're suggesting me to meet him in person. I know that from a third pov, it's funny but I feel so overwhelmed and annoyed. Is it normal for me to feel this way? Or am I overthinking? I cannot just go and tell him that I don't like him because I know he is going to reply with 'i just wanna be friends' and continue with his chats. He has even started putting sad quotes on his story🤷🏻‍♀️😅...Pls suggest me a way to get out of this without having to block him.

Frustration

I am a married women with one toddler and there is this guy at work he is also recently married who always smily flirty with me. He says my name anytime i pass him or he passes me, says that he missed me at work when i was off and followed me on my insta. Can anyone tell me What this guy intention is?

Just wanna share my one sided love story hahahahha, i think. Soo i first know him when we are in pair work for an organisation of an event, but we rarely talked as our jobscope didn’t really need us to discuss. I used to hate him because i thought he was an arrogant and unfriendly guy and he loved to work alone, so working in pairs with him sometimes gave me thought that he hated me, that is why he never really had any discussion with me. Then, suddenly we participated together in another organisation which again i need to work in pair with. However, this time we really need to discuss and sometimes even met a couple of times. I started to realised that he was not that bad, and our chat become more friendlier even it was all about work. And we even laughed together a few times, so i started to open my heart, he was not that bad, maybe he was just an introvert and minding his own business guy. I admitted that he indeed handsome even on the first time i know him, so i guess he has a lot of admirers, and i know thag i’m not his style. And now i kept telling and encouraging my self not to get high hopes and all these only for work. After this work done (which only few days left), you and him gonna be stranger again. The end. Please pray for my heart not be too hurt and smoothly and fast forgetting him. 


One Sided Love

He likes me, he treats me like his girlfriend. But he doesn’t shares his thoughts, his daily life routine with me. On top of that, he expects me to ask him about his day, his life, his work. (Even if he doesn’t wants to share, he wants me to ask) He would give me cold replies on chats but is totally happy and romantic person on calls and offline dates.
What do I do? Should I stop talking to him? How do I handle it?


Relationships

I had busy schedule with my studies from june 2-25  . My boyfriend had no objection at that time for my busy schedule . From june 26-30 I was busy with my cousins because I got to meet one of my favorites cousin who came from Canada and all the cousins were together after a long time . But during this time ,My boyfriend got upset with not contacting with him as normally I do . I was chatting on WhatsApp but it wasn’t enough for him as I was busy with my cousins . He didn’t tell me anything at that time that he is upset with me .Today is july 2 . Now I got time to talk and he is accusing me I haven’t given him update while I was busy having fun with cousins. He was waiting for my reply and I was busy with my cousins . Is this really my fault ? Can’t I have fun on my own? How can I solve this argument ? He is telling his side with cold voice and I am not liking it . I am feeling like he is being controlling in this relationship. I agree I was busy but is it okay to be too much clingy? 

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