Francheska @chess
so me and this guy broke up march 1 and we are still friends but we act like a couple but the thing is he tells me he doesnt love me or like me but he action shows differnt all the time
it shows that he has feeling for me even my fam sees it so right now i am really confused on wtf to think or do
i always ask him how he feels and he tells me the samething but why tf does he always keep coming back to me and showing me somthing differnt one
Francheska @chess
should i give up
Karma @ace_11
I think you should talk to him about how you feel
Francheska @chess
i do but he hates when i tell him how i feel he calls me annoying
I think you should clear your head.
Do you wanna be his friends for the rest of your life or you wanna be his gf if things work that way.
Then you gotta sit with him and ask clearly “what are your feelings for me”? Don’t let him dodge the qs.
And if there are no feelings from his side, you clear it from your end that the friendship is gonna be ‘platonic’.
For that you gotta control yourself and maintain a distance. Boundaries girl!
You said he has told you couple of times already that he doesn’t feel for you…isnt that clear enough, two possibilities one he is maybe just being nice to you and your are interpreting it wrongly, second maybe he is just leading you on so that he can pass some time with you before he finds someone else…both the the cases wont end well…so isnt it better to just slowly distance yourself…you will save yourself from heartbreak later…