So me and bestfriend been dating for 6months but we are arguing frequently these days. Heβs an introvert and Iβm an extrovert,we handle things differently.
I donβt like asking for help in minor inconvenience but he says me to stand back which I donβt wanna.
He havenβt been talking properly, itβs just awkward everytime we talk cause heβs talking so cautiously dunno why.
He havenβt been talking like himself how am I supposed to talk normally. If this goes on we might break up. What to do
FaLlen Soul @fallensoulll
whatβs the point , you already came up with a solution !
???
you said you might breakup !
Cause we are hurting eachother
how long did you guys being together
6 months but we were bestfriends from 6 years
you know him for 6 years an so is heβ¦so just talk to each other find out what really your problem is and think about how you can overcome ,I mean 6 years is, you know itβs , should have known each other very well,
just jumping into a sudden decision like breakup isnβt a good idea
Ik even thinking of breakup sounds stupid but the arguments are never ending. I know he loves me and i love him too but itβs making me think is love all thatβs needed?! we need to work on other things too or it ainβt gonna work
then go ahead , work on it man !
if it wonβt its your call !
Agree.
Talk it out itβs the only solution. If one is not talking and the otherβs just waiting for the person to talk it wonβt resolve anything.
Idk how some people just read that a couple is fighting and they say just breakup like really?
I am no expert nor I have ever been in a relationship give each other a chance.
Once you talk youβll know why this is happening.
If still things donβt work out or itβs getting extreme then you decide.
Also Take Care β¨
Thank you
there are lot of things needed beyond love to have a happy relationship, compatibility is one of them. You have two choices, either accept him as he is and sacrifice few things on your part to adjust with him, and he do the same for you.
Else you know the second option.
Yeah
Thank you for understanding
Well, as an introvert, it is really difficult to express emotions verbally and introverts are cautious of they are saying because they are scared that they might offend anyone . The best way to talk him out would be , try asking him to tell his emotions or opinions in letters , emails , etc . This might gave him a relief. And tell him he can say anything to u , ask anything to u and u will not get offended no matter what.
And this might solve ur problem.
Good luck π