So me an My ex broked up 15 days back. She came back and said i care for you just stay in contact. Now we talk 10 mins a day.. But from her behaviour it seems she doesnt need me anymore. She says she needs me but thats not the thing. I mean i can sense she is very happy and acts like she is guilty and all. Anyways What should i do should i cut off totally.

Let make things boring or have a conversation about it clearly.


I would say don't be too harsh on yourself. I can't tell whether you should continue or not because I don't know why she broke up. But if you do not want to continue, do it slowly for yourself so that it comes easy for you.

A girl don't hang out with that often just messaged me say she misses me. The other day she asked if I wanted to go out to town with her and so we did pretty recently. Noone misses me that quickly lol. I only like her as a friend but I don't think she feels the same. What should I do?

Relationships

I need a little help... So i've just been in a Relationship a month ago and we've been together for 8months but i'm wondering why she left me... Like i mean i did my very best, I've always done my very best to keep our relationship long, to make her smile, took a good care of her and Hold on for too long to make the relationship stay alive when it seems like she don't have interest anymore like i've done Everything i can but I just one day I woke up saw a Text at my phone from her saying to not contact her anymore, i did contact her for like 20 times that day but she never even answered and since then I've been left with a Question "Did i make a mistake?" "Did i hurt her?" Even till this day... It's just, it hurts alot like I've done my best with everything and just got left without even knowing the reason why. I wish anyone could give me answer here... Thank you in advance.

Anxiety

She said she isnt ready for a relationship but she says she has feelings for me and it’s nothing to do with me etc… she makes sure to talk to me every day, she’s invited me round to hang out and seduced me, then the next day says it’s a mistake, still talks to me every day after?? Invited me to stay over and have a few drinks and she cuddled me and tried to seduce me again but I said no …. I’m so confused. I really love her but I’m hurt, confused and feel like the trust for her is disappearing more and more each time… if she really had feelings for me would be treat me this way? 

3am Thoughts

How to approach a girl with whom i wanna be fwb ??

Soo, two months ago I broke up with my girl. She was upset about the whole thing. She blamed me for everything that transpired and called our relationship toxic. She told me to move on and also said that our thought processes were so different. I tried to explain to her how much I tried to become a better person for her but she wouldn't listen and told me that there was no need for me to change myself for someone. I haven't talked to her for months. The sad part was that we used to be really good friends. I loved talking to her and sharing things with her. Initially in our relationship, everything was going well. Then I somehow started to become insecure about her because of something that someone told me. I started to treat her badly but somewhere in my mind, I didn't want to do that. After some time I tried to approach her and asked her if we could still be friends. she agreed but we didn't talk much. Then one day I tried to explain to her how much she meant to me but during this conversation, I lost my cool. She didn't say anything. A few days later, she told one of my friends to tell me never to approach her again and also said that she has lost all feelings for me. It hurt me a lot. I never wanted all this to ever happen. I miss being with her. Somehow I feel that she still has some feelings for me. My friends told me to move on but I can't. I hate the fact that she still thinks that our relationship was toxic because of one instance. She never told me how she suffered. How was I supposed to know that she felt bad? I had asked her many times if she felt bad about anything, but she never said anything. I feel guilty about all this. And I haven't been able to forgive myself for it. I'm just a shadow of my former self. I need my mental peace back.

Breakup

I'm feeling pretty low. Me n my partner have completed 4 years together. We'll turn 5 this Nov. We really love each other. I couldn't propose her the way she had dreamt of. And this thing makes feel like I haven't done anything for her to feel loved and special. Whereas I never miss an opportunity to make her feel loved and special. I write poems, get her gifts, give her flowers and do everything possible to make her happy. She's happy with me. She had many crushes. And I was one among them. I feel real bad with the fact that I could not even plan her a proposal. I just confessed that I love her and just made distant from her so that she can think about us and reply. But never knew that she wanted a sweet way of proposal like the ones in romcom movies. I feel like boys who had crush on her would have proposed her in the way she had dreamt of. But I can surely assure that no-one else can love her like the way I do, no-one can take care of her like I do, no-one can make her laugh as hard as I do, no-one keep her happy and contented. I just hope she realises that I never knew that she wanted a sweet proposal. I just hope she never leaves me. How can I get rid of this feeling of sadness 🥺 coz I feel very bad whenever I cannot give her what she wanted 😔

Hi everyone and I m new for this community.

I'm sorry this may go long. I had a one-sided love on a girl for past 8 year. My problem is I did n't even had a crush on any other person. Then I told her about my love to her 4 years back when we start to talk at our college after completing School and we two people discuss about that and we understand even though we like each other we cant end in marriage and so she neither accept nor reject and time runs. We become close and care for each other and share everything etc.

And now she got marriage fixed in 2 months. Even though I know this is how it will end at starting my mind cant accept it and also cant avoid her. I'm Struggling with thoughts sleepless nights and loneliness and also meaningless anger . How can I accept her absence.
This meaningless anger also making me to hurt her 

One Sided Love

I want to break up with my gf but she has not done anything wrong. i just don't have feelings for her now like i think she's not the one for me. And now when i think about this, it was a forced relation. It was my mistake that i just got into a relationship with her cuz i was lonely, other than this there is nothing i like about her that much. I don't know what to do. She is such a pure soul but i don't wanna ruin her life.

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