So Iāve been taking to this guy for a year.i call him Al for now. For 7mths we were telling each other saying i love and talked about a family and kids. He didnāt make things official becuase I had just broken up with my ex of 9yrsā¦ then Alās ex came back to his job. She confessed she missed him and that she wish things could be different. He mentioned that they even kissed. But it didnāt feel the same and wants me. That were not in a relationship so it doesnāt count. Now Al says that she is his best friend. When he wants his āme timeā for himself they hangout. I get all upset and then he gets up set becuase Iām hounding himā¦ should I just stay away from him. He use to be more attentive to me and included me in everything. He said he still wants me but I canāt believe him becuase I feel so betrayed. Again he states that weāre not dating so it was okayā¦
THATS LITERALLY MY SITUATION RN THIS DUDE IS SAYING HE WANTS A āRELATIONSHIPā BUT WE NOT DATING Like man f this, gal you shouldnāt waste your time with him. Hes trying to hold your heart and play with it. Ik he might seem sincere but remind yourself. Like if heās not making this an offical relationship by now heās playing himself. You deserve way better you deserve a committed relationship! No slip ups or excuses!!!
Wow Iām so sorry you were going through too! Ugh these boys not men! Itās so messed up š£ At this age I donāt want any games. He knew what I went through with my ex. I havenāt texted him back for a day now and I plan on keeping it that way. Thank you for your words and encouragement!! I definitely needed some advice. I hope you get through your situation too. You deserve wayy better also!
I hope everything goes well!! starting today Iām just not texting the person. Its difficult cus I think about him a lot but then Iām just like gal beee stronggg! Iām only 19 but like I just really donāt want to deal with flimsy relationships as well š©
I agree itās extremely rough. It will be so worth it when you do!!! We shouldnāt be an option or taking advantage of our time for their pleasure. We got this girl!!! One day at a time.
I definitely wonāt wast any more time! Thanks ā¤
All Iām gonna say, re-read what you wrote and will see so many things wrong with this guy! Screw his ass!! He is not serious with you. There is no excuse for kissing his ex, staying his ābest friendā and tells u that you were not dating anywayā¦ it might be hard, but block his ass and go enjoy life. U deserve better. U donāt need this toxicity in life.
So true!! Iām done with him no more wasting my time. Thank you ā¤
