Angelina @angelinahupe
So it’s day 2 after me and my best friend broke up it’s really hard to overcome everything at once i cried 2 times today I just couldn’t stop myself it’s just uncontrollable why she did this to me? What was the reason behind all this?? I’m feeling so empty I can’t even explain now there is no one… I miss her… I want her back but at the same time I don’t… She hurted me so badly for no reason that I can’t even think to forgive her she was there in my hard times but she just left me like a random stranger she acted very immature very much it’s hard to accept that we are no longer friends anymore my family members are not understanding my pain they are saying that I’m crying for no reason but I’m broken from inside I’m broken into pieces and I rarely cry I don’t cry very often but this situation is so hard to overcome we were litterally inseparable but within a second we became strangers I don’t know what to do I’m feeling very alone there is no one to share my feelings with…
Ramesh N @nova1403
Ok, you didn’t mention the reason for broke up.
But, in my guess - she is not worthy good friend.
Hereafter, just think she is Chameleons character.
In my country , we call the person who changes her character, behavior on situation for selfish mentality and won’t realizing others feelings.
Past is past - just be proud of being yourself.
Stay strong - study well - go for carrier - some friends stay -some friends go - don’t waste you’re valuable tears for not worthy person.
Enjoy your time.
If she is wrong - if she felt guilty - she will ask for forgiveness - delay time and get together.
But, if not. ,just do your work, enjoy every moment, watch videos, hear songs, watch tv series.
I wish you, there will be a good friend will come to you 😊
Take care, have a nice day
Angelina @angelinahupe
Thanks for your time I really appreciate it the reason behind we broke up was nothing just a small fight like this kind of fight is very common in best friends the reason behind this small fight was she was ignoring me like she was playing with my pateince she was reading my msges and replying me after 5,6 mins and I knew she was doing this on purpose she did it for like 1/5 hours and I got super mad and told her to stop making excuses and to stop ignoring me she was not accepting her mistake so we didn’t talk in 5 days and again it wasn’t a new thing we often had small fights and stopped talking with eachother for weeks but this time she decided to break me into pieces after day 5 I msged her and she just acted like I hurted her so much that she couldn’t handle it like I was very shocked like I had no clue what really happened she blamed me that for me she has lefted alot friends again which I never had any idea before she played the victim role and hurted me for no reason she blocked me in every social media that we are in even she had my mom’s number and she blocked it too I swear this was very unexpected very much if I have ever hurted her by mistake I’m sorry for that I really don’t want to see her in pain i really don’t know how our years of friendship brokeup within seconds
Ramesh N @nova1403
Few ways :
1. say “sorry” - say its my fault - be friends
2. Don’t say anything - just wait, for few days
3. Ignore her, do studies.
4. In my guess - 😑 i think she got new friend or boyfriend .
5. You know if anybody got lover, they slowly avoid their friends - there will be no time, ifshe always texting her bf.
6. If (4th point) is correct - sure she will come to you after broke up.
So be patience.
7. Note : you should not hurt her, if you see her, just move go and stay away. Or be calm.
Have a nice day
Angelina @angelinahupe
Yeah I know she can’t stay without me for a moment now she just forgotten me i think she gotta any new friends when we both were fighting i asked her that "i know I guess you got some new friends now " and she replied me with “well we both need to be honest with eachother” that was super suspicious what ever I don’t want her back once she was the reason for my smile and now she’s the reason for my tears she doesn’t even care! She’s busy playing the victim role I’m tired it and I’m saying to my self to let go but still all the memories just coming up in my mind i just can’t handle it.
Ramesh N @nova1403
U can handle, you just need sometime, relax your mind.
You should not broke down for every situation, you need to face it.
Hear some songs, sleep well, otherwise you’ll get migraine headache due to your depression
Angelina @angelinahupe
Yeah you’re right thank you once again for your time really meant alot to me god bless you 🙏🏼
I can completely understand what u are going through, the same thing happened to me too. Honestly, you will have to make a tough decision at this point, u can either say sorry and try to mend the friendship, or u could try making new and better friends. In my opinion, u should go with the second one, I know this might sound cringy or weird but there is a famous poet, Rahim in Indian history, who once said that the thread of trust and love is very delicate if it’s broken it can never be the same way as it was because even if u try there will always be a knot in the thread. I know how it feels to have someone u care about and spent so much time with just leave all of a sudden. I know it hurts a lot but trust me when I say this u will definitely find people who are way better than her. I know at this point a lot of trust issues, self-doubt and insecurity start to build up inside of u but don’t ever doubt urself. Someone like her clearly doesn’t deserve u. Its ok if u want to cry ur eyes out sometimes, it’s understandable but don’t let her affect u too much. Don’t let this incident hold u back in any way. I know right now it may seem very hard but over a period of time try forgiving her, cause holding onto that hate will only create more problems for u. I really hope that u find happiness again and just believe in urself, u are strong and I know u will be able to overcome this.
Angelina @angelinahupe
Thank you sooo much for this comment really appreciate it 🙏🏼
Anytime😊
It’s a shame you’re going through such an agonizing time right now. Few things in life are more painful than the loss of a loved one. Your situation, in fact, reminds me of this ancient wisdom: “Heartache crushes the spirit.” -Proverbs 15:13
Were you aware that heart break often causes the same pain as the death of a loved one?
