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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

So, its been a month since we broke up the and the REASON IS “She did not wanted a life time commitment”. I understand that we need time to figure out things but that does not means we have to separate.
Do we?? ​
I miss her sometimes but sometimes i feel its great that we broke up.

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@betteralone06

Whatever happens… happens for good… Instead of feeling lonely and sad…try to explore yourself… go out enjoy your life… When we compare our life to others we are much better than them… We all miss someone… Try to take that in a positive way…

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Hey, i appreciate you positive thoughts but the only thing that i am really frustrated of hearing is “Whatever happens… happens for good…”.
No its not like that, if things happen for good, then why are we blaming the rapists, the suicides, the society, etc. Yes things happen for a reason that’s for sure, but if its for good or bad that cant be said.
And yes i am trying to get things better for me. Going for a long ride tomorrow.

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@betteralone06

That’s nice… even I like long ride… unfortunately I don’t have anyone who I can go with… 😪😪

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Buddy you don’t need anybody. You are your company.
If you are near Delhi, you can join me up.

@betteralone06

I’m too far away from u… I Stay in Mangalore, Karnataka… any plans to visit Karnataka?

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Oh, thats quite far. I used to live in Bangalore a couple of years back and i love that place.
As of now no plans because of the covid.
But ping me your insta or whatsapp, will surely connect if come there and we can have a good ride then.

@letitout

I faced the similar thing the guy wasn’t ready for commitment I was and the worst part is we are in the same college so have to face him everyday I miss him too but how am I suppose to fix things I never wanted to break

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Exactly the same case. we are in the same organization.
And you know what you don’t have to fix things up. If they were to be fine they would never had broken up.
I hope you understand what “Not ready for commitment” means.
They are just playing around with the feelings.
So you dont have to fix that. Let them play and be happy with whatever they are doing. One day they will be facing the consequences.

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Anonymous

Heyy theree
Not to hurt you or anything …but maybe she wasn’t completely invested in the relationship … also I am sorry being an outsider I have no right to tell this
She didn’t want any life long commitments and that was her decision… as fellow human we must respect each other’s decision even though it hurts us
I can only imagine how much you miss her !
And also I am really glad you spoke up
I am really sorry if this offended you in any way
But I really hope the best for you and wish you all the best in the future
And as Deepika says in YJHD: Kuch waqt dho … sab teek ho jayega ☺️

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Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...

Hey there!
There is nothing to get hurt. Also yes i completely agree she was not completely invested in the relationship. I respect her decisions.
But what i am saying is, everyone knows and has intentions, right?
If anyone is not interested for a commitment get those things cleared at the very early stage so that it doesn’t make things difficult in future.
Do you agree?

@stardust1269

Yes I definitely agree to your point
We are only humans
Not all of us have the same way of thinking …there is good and bad everywhere and ultimately you were the one who got hurt
I am really sorry for that !
Hope you find your happiness soon again ☺️

@stardust1269

Shit forgot to post anonymously 😂
Well that was my comment earlier
Saying just so you don’t think I am a weirdo coming in btw the convo 😂

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