So I’m in a relationship with I boy I thought I had a crush on for 4 year and now the relationship is about to be 1 year but now I think I’m no longer in this relationship I thought I loved him but it was just the idea of him that I loved…
It’s not like he don’t make time for me rude to or don’t understand my obsession with k-pop/drama he is the ideal boyfriend anyone can ever have.
Slightly taller to me,good in sports& studies, good looking, understand my trauma,loves me,pampers me and mostly never argue but idk what’s wrong with me I want to move out of this relationship knowing I won’t find a guy like him
I do love him as a friend but now this relationship is like a bone in my throat I can’t live with it and can’t throw it out
I don’t wanna hurt him he did all the good to me I can’t break his heart like that
I can’t tell my best friend as she is his sister (cousin)
What should I do
Thesilentbuddha @jot
Jus stay calm…n confront him…in dat u will put less damage to ur relationship n to urself too…:)
What if it hurts him like he seems too much into this relationship
Thesilentbuddha @jot
Nthin will happen…if ur bond is real it will get even more stronger…:)
Trust me truth always help…:)
I guess I should tell him thankyou ✨
Thesilentbuddha @jot
Dere u go girl…smile :)
U r brave girl…m so proud of u…:)
That’s why I don’t talk to my crushes, I can handle a no but what if everything goes well and I reach where you are now.
I would say just get out of this cage before it gets too late . And don’t make excuses be frank
Yeah I guess I should talk it out
Or you can ghost them and start a new life😂😂😂 this way you won’t have to confront both of them
😂let me just pack my bags and move to an island 😂😂
Try Daman , and alcohol there is cheap and it’s least crowded area with a lot of trees. You’ll find love here again
As you describe him, he seems perfect. And I think you are starting to make yourself say that you don’t deserve something so perfect. And I think it’s a really bad thing. You do deserve it. And still if you feel this way I think you should talk to him. He would probably understand it.
That so sweet of you… But he seems to be too much into this relationship
He loves you. He would surely understand. And as much longer time you take it’s gonna mess up more. Conversation is important. Talk to him sort it out.
Yeah I guess I should talk it out thank you ✨✨
You should go straight to him and talk about how you feel.
Discuss it with him
If you just go on the way it is going on, nor you or he is gonna be happy!
It would hurt a little bit, but it’s better if you are honest because
The false reality would hurt even more
But what if he gets too heart broken
About that,
Don’t you think you are compromising?
Like you are in that relationship just so that you don’t hurt him
Sooner or later he’ll notice that or because you are not completely into it you might worsen things.
That would hurt him more than you being honest with him .
And just know that it’s not your fault .
But deep inside I still feel it was me you will or is dragging him down but now I seriously do understand that I need to talk this out thank you✨✨
Always💕
This might sound harsh but here it is… when we know that we are not into someone but the other person is, its time they know, they might be mad or argue or it might just turn ugly, but that’s just a moment’s reaction, their future is in our hands too. You’ve gotta rip the band aid and I know you can do it with only causing less pain for yourself and the other person. They will understand, wasn’t he your friend? The primary part is your happiness too… do it what it takes.
I’m just too afraid to hurt him but I guess it’s best for both of us thank you ❤️✨✨
I know, I was where you were and I kinda dragged it for 3 years and it caused me my mental health. I wish you all the courage, things like this take the most courage.
That must be so hard so sorry to hear that
I guess I should tell him as soon as possible
