So, Iām confused if Iām over of depression or notā¦ My mom and dad used to fight a lot and sorry but my father is A pathetic person , he used to do domestic violence in our home since my childhoodā¦ He used to beat me for silly things and my mom tooā¦ He doesnāt earn that muchā¦ He earns abt 17-20k only ā¦ I was the topper of my class till 9th std but because of these trauma my grades are getting low
ā¦ When I was in 4th std my mom went to my grannyās home and stayed for 6 month because of the violenceā¦ That time was too hard for meā¦ My father requested my mom for a second chance and she gave it but when I was in 10th std again these stuff startedā¦ I got 74 percent on boards just by studying 26 days of the last monthā¦ He was accusing my mom for certain things I canāt even write those things. Even though I know my mom canāt do anything wrongā¦ We shifted to another city where my granny livedā¦ After few months suddenly my granny left usā¦ She was not that oldā¦ So after completing 11th std I went to my hometown for meeting my father and her mom(grand mother)ā¦ Last yearā¦ Lockdown started and again my father started physical violence and things were getting worse and worseā¦ I never got into their fight but on that day saved my mom from those thingsā¦ He kicked my mom as a foot ballā¦ Iām so sorry if this is triggering you. And after few days again my father was about to fight , my mom left the house and locked the main gate and she called our uncleā¦ My uncle, aunt and my mom came back and they saved me and my little sister from himā¦ After few days my maternal uncle came and they all had a debate kind of thing with my fatherā¦ Then we came to the city where mom and I was livingā¦ My father doesnāt give us that much money to surviveā¦ Itās very hard for us to save moneyā¦ I was not able to study throughout the year although this was the last year of my school lifeā¦ Idk how much time do I have for boardsā¦ Iām tensed about it and Iām literally tensed about how will I continue my further studiesā¦ I think Iāll need to earn money of my ownā¦ But how can I do itā¦ Please tell me if somebody can help meā¦ :)Iām so sorry for taking this long
As u said u r good study that means u can teach others. I m taking tution since I passed my 10th std apart from that as u mentioned u r in 12th there r lots of job in city donāt take anyjob small job. Telecalller receiptionist or anything just do damm job during ur free hours if u r indian then there is two app apna app and workindia app they post lots of job and u can contact to hr . See ur father is jerk donāt call him even ur father. My fathe is not had person but he also use to hit my mother during arguments. When I crossed my 7th std I realised this is all not right and till then I started stand against him and eventually he understands he canāt raise his hand on others whenever he want. Even I made my mom so confident that once he hit her she hit him back with utensils in front of everyone that day he realised if he will continue this then be will pay heavily. my fatherās nature is coward .I donāt know about ur father but u all family have to stand against him and if he raises his hand than u also bit him and make him feel insulted tell ur mother call police next time. Few things never ever compromise and domestic violence is one of them
Sorry for lots of spelling error . I went in emotions and did lots of typos
Thanks a lot for your valuable time. Iāll try to find jobs on those apps and you know last time we appointed a lawyer and we were about to register a complain against him but the lawyer was my fatherās senior so he called my father and my father was acting like " Please save me, Iāll never do that againā¦ Anyways weāre not going to my hometown againā¦ So Iāll try my best to find jobs and make my mom proudā¦ Again thanks a lot.
try to report your dad, violence is not good! second chance is enough. i know this pandemic a lot people whom suffering on any kinds of problem. Letās get up!! yeaā¦ i dont have a right to say this but u and your mom suffers like that, i think u need an action right now to stop this.
We were gonna report but it couldnāt happenā¦ Anyways now weāre safe because we donāt live together anymore.
