So I’ve been having insecurities and trust issues lately when it comes to relationships. I’m not sure if this is because of my past relationship but yeah it’s like if I’m talking to guy and we’re kind of developing mutual feelings for each other, I tend to have these questions, am I really special to him or he’s the same with other girls as well? Is he casually flirting or does he really mean what he says? And even if the guy assures me, it still takes a lot of overthinking for me to rely upon that assurance. So yeah this really kills me sometimes.
Akash Dalal @skybroker
you have your answer in your question you “overthink” that is why you have insecurities as well as trust issue because of the question. the question are simple but to get it confirm you have to ask but instead you over think that is why thoughts have been over u.
In my opinion you should first heal from your past…become you can’t trust someone when you are already broken by your past…once you are healed your heart will automatically learn and accept trusting someone again…because trust is the most important step of relationship…