Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

So is there any solution for it?

Believe in destiny agar koi hoga to jarur milega
Warna zindagi to jhand h hi kya hi farak padna h
Keep trying start making friends who knows kab kaha kon mil jaye

Should I just give up on finding love? Because whatever you said is 100% correct. I can’t connect with anyone, I have been single since birth😂

I know u can relate too me I have been single all my life and I never felt the need to having relationship as I was so much happy in life
But from the last two years and this pandemic and people around me getting married I feel like having one with I can share my feelings and enjoy my life .
And now I only believe in destiny and I keep on trying I try to connect with people maybe someday I vibe with someone

True, I feel like I’m missing something important but the thing is I don’t have guts to just settle for the very next, It will be heart wrenching for me if I get hurt😛

So true we are afraid of the affects if it doesn’t work like for me it’s better to be single than getting attached and than getting heart broken I want something to be real
And in this search I have been single to whole time
But try karna padega yaar

HahahHa marriage and lockdown right
Even now the parents are also happy no if and but tumko pasand h
Date fix karo ghar main hi shadi kar lo
No family drama nothing at all

You are right the thing is Where should I try? It’s really tough for me I guess. Oh god I’m sorry I’m such a confused mess😓

Yeah I kind of like this trend Though I’m a no drama person. Lockdown or no lockdown, I gonna prefer something as simple as that only.

It’s okay yaar I know what u dealing with
Try using tinder r bumble
If not go on a trip what I like to with the strangers u can meet lovely people while travelling
I tend to go to music concerts coz I like attending them and there I meet quiet a few people
What about your friends if u have a crush on someone try approaching them

It’s really difficult to try to fall in love
I think it come natural but for that we need to connect with someone
And for that we need to meet people
For that we need to make some time
For that we need to think
So if u really want to meet someone try all the options u can try

Well That cleared a lot of things. I’m very lazy regarding all these things and I shouldn’t be.

Nobody knows but still if there’s a option u can try it
Like I have 11 pending matches on tinder but I didn’t message anyone I don’t know why
But the thing is you should try

I should try.

I am too
I just want someone too come and say that I am your dream girl please be my Partner I accept u unconditionally 😂😂

Yes give it a try

😂😂lol true Infact I’m same.

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
It’s good to see that I am not alone there are people like me
Nice

I have to do a lot of things, I had planned my life you know. But this relationship and love where never actually a part of this plans. So I’m kinda shoving it out.

But as you said I should Atleast give it a shot.

😂😂same here yaar, Because a lot of my frnds told me, I had a heart of steel, and maybe I lack feelings or stuff Like that.

That’s what kept us busy and distracted from loved life we never prioritised and now the reality has striked and we found ourselves alone

Yes damn those words are so true🥴

We don’t have a heart of steel it’s just we were never understood

Like in my case i was approached by few girls but I was busy in work so much that I was unable to give time
Now I really don’t know how to start a conversation r even how to hold one
I can talk to friend r colleagues for hour but when it comes to talking a girl I go blank and wo phir mere ko pagal samajhti h and baat wahi pe close

Yes it’s true.

Damn kinda Same for me I studied from girls school and graduated from Girls college and Bam I got employed when I was very young,I face same problems

Hey I was just going through conversation of both of you, n feels so relatable.
The best abd worst thing about being single for long is that, We get habitual of own owm company n then after years ruling our life alone, the thought of suddenly letting someone inside to share to be vulnerable is so scary.
I really hope You (d one who posted) get someone like-minded to support you n give ur own space.
Coming to kush, there’s no harm in sending a hi, so go on buddy reply those 11 matches

And u never tried while working

I Can chat But when it comes to one on one conversation I’m a dumb personality

Now I don’t want to send a hi to someone
during the recent time I am not in good mental state
Things been rough lately
And I don’t want to hurt anyone

No I never tried, Because most of my colleagues were already married, and the thought never crossed my mind not even once when it came to single colleagues. I have been approached bt I remember the conversation now And I understood it quite later what they actually meant 😂

Well That’s very understandable

Hahahah right na
Now we understand right 😂😂😂
Koi na there’s still time yaar

So the second anonymous tell your story

Thanku so much it’s relieving and at the same time saddening that many of are going through same dilemma.

It’s life yaar it’s not happening always

Yaar Someone actually told me, That guy used to have feelings for you I’m too dumb to actually understand it. Then I recalled the conversation and times I things pretty much summed up.😂😂 Why Am I like this?

Hahahah I know
There was this one girl I met on a trip 2 years back and when we ended up trip and landed in delhi she wrote “ I really like you “ after reading that I just smiled
She even tried talking to me and called me and usne pura izhaar kar diya ki how much she liked me
I was busy with work and she was from Bombay mere mind main ye chal raha tha ki how this gonna work first time h
I didn’t even try I feel bad about it

U know these are things I miss taking to someone I can’t share such feelings with anyone
This site is such helpful For such things

Oh god 😂Are you in touch with her now? You should try now.She likes you she will understand.

Very true Indeed, Many things were just bottled up inside my heart and My mind was so occupied but ab thoda acha lag rha h, actually after talking it out I feel good.

I am in touch with her but I don’t know how to start
In this lock she lost his dad and her mother left her long ago
I didn’t know what to talk to her
The day before her dad left I normally messaged why u r off from insta she said she wanted some time off aand told her dad is in serious state and admitted in the hospital
And the very next day she texted her dad left
I felt numb

Nice it’s good to see you feel good
Sometimes coming up here and really helping out people
It’s peace ☮️

You know what My dad left this world 5 months ago And I guess this is the time when she is very vulnerable, Just support her and be there for her okay. She will be thankful, I know this because I have been through this. You know a simple conversation can make her happy.

Sorry for your dad
Yeah I texted her after that
Though the conversation was not long
I have seen her getting normal nowadays
I’ll talk to her

Yeah Sure. Do it Because that’s the most one can do for someone grieving. I’m sure she will be happy to see message from you

But I really don’t know what to talk to her
Coz normal baat to Kar nhi saktien
I don’t know where to start

Btw how you holding you after your dad and your family too

Ohh yaar is condition mei toh you are really asking a wrong person. Conversation start krna mujhe ata toh ni h bt a simple Hi and How are you should work fine I guess😛

Arrey that I did than I asked about how is everyone at home
Than uske agey I went blank

Oh I’m doing fine and family is good now, we are still recovering from it because it was shocking that he was gone suddenly just like that. It was silent heart attack and I was busy with my stupid job that I didn’t noticed it. So I also carry the guilt. But now We are good I talk a lot with my mom and my bestfriend she was there for me so It was not a problem.

Ohhhhh okay but still I really get freaked whenever I think about my parents leaving 😣😣

But after he is gone The pressure on me to get married is brutal. He kinda shielded me from you know marriage and stuff, He was supportive told me to make my own decisions and respected my choices. I miss him my dad was really a superhero.

But it’s good to see you have a friend who is always there for you

Oh Don’t even think about it. May ur parents live a healthy and long life. I pray

But during this covid my mind thinks about all possibilities

Yeah she is a colleague of mine and but she is far away. We can Get posted anywhere in india. I met her only on induction training and then we went to few trips oh she is a lovely person. But still we just talk about work and sometimes of family that too on call.

I can understand your mom wants you to get married and be settled
You know for girls dad is always a super hero

Nice nice look as I said you meet lovely people around

Yes That’s indeed true. But yaar I don’t wanna hurry and I can’t marry anyone or someone my relatives suggest and she knows that,Again it all comes around to same problem mei hi pagal hu😂

Koi nhi yaar take your time 1/2 saal try kar lo
Warna second option to always open h

Yeah I know Mind wanders Bt parents are everything So keep them safe😁 I know You can’t control your parents they will do whatever they want to😂 but we should be extra careful due to covid

Yeah True Second option is scary😂

Yeah I know
I had a fight with them because of it my father was all day out and it freaked me

You never know

I can totally understand same with my mom.

Yup we never know.

Chalo it was nice talking to you
Agar koi mile to batana wo story bhi share karenge kabhi 😂😂

Yes same Do tell me abt your story as well. It was very nice chatting and thanku so much👍

Hahahah my story
Let’s see
If you want to be in that feel that you want someone in your life do watch I hate love story
Than the next day
Anjaana anjaani
I swear feel a jayega

I have seen both the movies and I loved them but real life mei aisa hota h kya?😂

Ye question mere ko bhi h
Jiska ans main dhoondh raha hoon
But I love
I hate love stories

Doondho dhoondho mile toh batana

Arrey I just want my mental health back and I was happy being single I loved my life earn good amount of money travel attend music concerts
I used to enjoy my own company

I can relate

I want my Brain back I used to study and Mind my own business and achieve my goals and was serious towards them I want myself back too

Btw I love traveling and I’m super sad That I’m stuck here from almost 1 year

We are living a fomo life we miss each and everything that we used to do and live

Yes We should get back on track.

I can bet I love travelling more than you
I used to travel like every three month and I missed my Ladakh trip this year though I am planning it on august
I am happy that at least I enjoyed my New Years at Goa and it was fun 10 days
What I feel bad about my friends asked me join in there trips but I said Ki Ladakh jaonga Ladakh jaonga and ye lockdown lag gaya

I think we will not be able to get back on tracks soon jab tak ye COVID h it’s going to the same

I traveled to goa twice. I had been to jaipur ajmer pushkar Amritsar kerala I was also planning trip to ladakh But as you said lockdown, I frequently travel to Mumbai because I have my training sessions there only

I want to travel overseas too But Right now it’s just a wish That will come true no doubt😁

😭😭ye covid ka pata ni kab tak chalega

Arrey my last two New Years goa main hi hue h
And I have been to Ladakh Spiti Himachal almost pura major major cities Rajasthan circuit Bikaner Jaisalmer Jodhpur Udaipur Pushkar jaipur phir Dehradoon Mussoorie Rishikesh Nainital Pune Goa south jayda explore nhi kiya h

I have planned for Sri Lanka next year dekho possible hota h ki nhi

Covid to chalega we just to get adapt in these circumstances vaccine lagwao and mast ghumo phir

Anon2 stepping in middle foe commentary: Aur yha dono hi khiladi “mene jyda travel kia” game mei aa chuke h, jaha Anon1 ne goa twice ka daav khela wahi Kush ne bhi goa ki tickets dikha di… isi k sath Anon2 ne jaise hi sagar paar Jane ki iccha jatai, kush ne apne Lanka k mansha vkaykta kr dia … .
kya ye dono firse wanderlust ka hastag use kr paynge, ya bas go back corona hi upload krnge , Jaanne k liye pdhte rhte comments!
😅M SO SORRY GUYS WENT A LIL OVERBOARD, BUT YOU TWO ARE ADORABLE

That was good anony 2
Come join our conversation share your story

anon2: Thanks kush I will share story some day.
😅 Tomorrow gotta wake up early n drive (looong way on highway with pretty pleasant terrain_ nah not teasing you both).
Goodnight you adorable fellas! n yes try checking out ‘dash & lily’ on netflix

Sure bro
And enjoy your journey tomorrow and Drive safe 🙌🏻

Awsome That was

Right na

Hey kush Now Im jealous of you, I want to travel more Let’s make it a competition 😂

I am way ahead of you need to catch up and I am going to add more

Aah I will add more To my list😂

getting leave from work That js actually a problem for me😭😭 But I won’t stop😛

What’s your next trip u gonna take after this lockdown

Arrey still long weekends are there

I wanna explore north east

What abt you?

I planned northeast and Bhutan this year end let’s see kya rehta hai abhi to kuch nhi kaah sakte

Grt oh these locations are so Awesome

I know I want to explore more and more but time money and covid sab mana kar rahe h ghar raho abhi

I love every part of mother nature Be it mountains river beach desert anything

Arrey same here
My town is surrounded my forest and rivers

😂😂true But time money or covid wouldn’t be a problem always. If you want it You will get it.

Oh wow really you are lucky. My town is surrounded mostly by idoits😂😂

Arrey I go out anytime I get the chance

Hahaha that’s also a luck surrounded by idiots

Yar I wish to do the same travel as I get chance and explore many places

Arrey you would soon ab to borders bhi open ho gaye h and covid reports bhi compulsory nhi h kafi states main

I know But It will still take some time for me to go out and travel , As long as my family is afraid 😂 bt I wanna Cooperate In economic recovery by spending my money on tourism 😛

Hahahaha right right kind of economic recovery india need 😂😂😂

Yeah You know can Contribute a little bit to GDP fulfilling my duty as Indian resident😂

Right I contribute a lot I go for a sunset watch every weekend

Arrey m not making you jealous it’s just my weekly routine m telling

Why are you making me jealous 😂 I wanna do it too.

Same same comment 😂😂

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Yaar😂😂

Hahahaha
Koi na

There was grammatical error thats why

Well I made many errors so far 😂😂 Not noticed it Bt this one was Huge so I deleted the comment only😂

Hhahaha arrey it’s okay yaar
You know wrong English is funny English and wrong is not funny Englishhhhh

😂😂👍

Arey what’s your dream vacation? Like you have to visit anyhow once in life?

My dream location are music festivals like ultra miami Tomorrowland edc vegas

Cool

What is your bucket list destination

All countries of europe and japan

I would Love to go to Vietnam phillipines and Bali too

Long list but nice places to visit
Vietnam Philippine and Bali are cheap and nice

Yeah and Bali is beautiful

Chalo it was very nice chatting with you I was In foul mood but now I’m really feeling great and I’m positive again. Good night😁

Ab travelling ki talks cancel warna raat bhar vedio dekhta rahoonga

Haha nice talking to you
Btw what’s your name

My name is Soniya

Nice talking to you Soniya
Good night

Hey Sonia

Anon2 got a notification saying : hey sonia
😂I was so confused.
btw ya thnks for making me smile before sleep kush🖤💙

Hey anony 2
How was your drive that day

Turns out 😅 I failed to got up early so parents let me sleep n no drive, But it was a good day.
How you feeling today kush… if 0 is worst n 10 is best, whats your mood score

Hahaha that’s nice
My mood is not good today I would say 3/4 maybe

If comfortable wanna talk about it?

Yeah that’s why I pinged to talk
I am just feeling lost in life
I feel like there’s nothing good happening in my life and everyone’s around is messing with me
Even my closed one’s

I understand, n its like when we are already so messed up lost dat time even d tiny uncomfy action by close ones feelz the worst.

Yeah that’s what really happening and it feels like u can’t do anything

And it’s getting worse day by day

yesss feels like we can’t do anything. N y everything is so havoc but we r blank inside.
As far I read comments, u love sunset when was d last tym u saw it…does that give you sukoon

cuz see either this feeling will go eventually for a period but dnt knw when
or we need to let it go

n my apologies it cant reply further phone dying

I watched it last sunday
And mujhe sabse jayda sukoon wahi milta h
But the things is jab wapas ghar aaon and again all that comes back

No worries bro
Thanks for talking btw
Enjoy the night

hey bud…u still around?

Hey buddy
Sorry so gaya tha
GM