So I went to my best friends birthday yesterday and there her boyfriend kept on commenting on my clothes again and again in a joking way. I didn’t like it but he does that with everyone. I didn’t say something there because he would have created a scene. Now, this wasn’t cool for me. I didn’t like it but if I say something to my best friend then I believe that he would take it upon his ego and say bad stuff about me. I asked a male friend about it and he told me to send a strong msg that he should never do that. What should I do?
Ujjwal @ubrdj
Honestly speaking you should take action and give that creature an earful so that he/she doesn’t repeat it ever again (not only with you but with anyone else as well)
Such creatures are themselves full of insecurities that’s the reason they try to pull others down!!
People will respect you only if you respect yourself and take a stand against whatever’s wrong!! The ones who don’t resonante with you on this are actually not your loved ones!!
Take care and stay blessed!!
Simran @st1199
Hello!
What scene would he have created and how is your best friend okay with this?
It’s sensible of you not saying in front of everybody present at the party but you should speak for yourself, no one else will come. If you don’t take a stand for yourself no one else will nor anyone will take you seriously for who and what you are. You could have talked to him separately. Also, let him take it on his ego, why should you bother and why are you scared of “bad” things he will say and what can he without knowing you?
And yeah, it’s not cool to talk like this and there is a thin line between joking and commenting to make that person feel conscious/low self-esteem.
