So i was in this relationship where we met virtually, used to VC and talk for hours. One day this person suddenly ghosted me out of nowhere. I dint find any red flags, nothing triggering happened between us and we had no fights. This person started ignoring my calls, never texted back and ultimately removed me from their life. It was as if they did not exist. This traumatized me so much that it makes me question any person I meet nowadays.
Almost 1 year after this happens, I met another person. They seem totally nice, always prioritize me and things seem good for 6 months now. A few weeks back they said that they developed feelings for me to which i said I’ll think about it as my previous trauma still haunts me.
Recently i feel like i have developed feelings for them but im afraid to say anything or exoress how i genuinely feel. In the last few days i feel as if they have not been calling as much as they used to, may be probably because of some work they have to do. But im still getting very anxious and i have no idea what to do. Im afraid to give a call or text out how i feel.
I have personally experienced first one and iagree it makes you very paranoid and skeptical person. The second guy seems honest with his feelings. You say its mutual, i think you should tell him about it.
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