So I reconnected with my Childhood friend last august and things escalated quickly between us. Though everything between us is casual. But he thinks he makes more effort in this so called situationship than me. We had an argument kindaoff yesterday. And my last message was to him was yesterday night. Since then he has not replied to my message. Out of anger I now deleted my whatsApp message. So should I sent him another message or let it be??
If he always ignores you like this after an argument then maybe you shouldn’t text him again but if this is the first or second time then you should text him.
All this is making anxious. I don’t know what to do if he never replies. And yes he is totally ignoring me😅.
I’m have gone through same situation several times and right now he is again ignoring me without any reason so i just don’t force him to talk to me. I let him do whatever he wants. I always used to text him first after a fight but now i can see that he never made the first move after a fight it was me who texted otherwise we would have never talked again. Just wait for 1-2 days and if he still doesn’t text you then you should let him be. You should not be the one to text first always. If he cares, he will. I can understand how you are feeling and i have experienced this too. I hope he will but if he doesn’t then maybe you can try once again but if this happens again then pls girl leave him and move on.
I’m so sorry that you had to go through something like this. But he should atleast express himself. All this makes me so anxious. After everything this is what I get!
And since he texted last time and I deleted my chat. I don’t think he will message! 🤦♀️
Don’t text again.
Bcoz he can see that u have deleted a msg and can text you back asking what it was…
Exactly but what to do if he doesn’t reply, it has happened before and everytime I am the ice breaker.
In fact the question is how long should I wait…
I got your point, but if one person in a relationship is keeping the attitude or ego at top, then I don’t see any future in this.
This will only get toxic with time.
Did he saw your msg before you deleted that?
And I guess you should value yourself now, bcoz as per what you have shared, you are just making yourself available and needy all the time…
(Needy not as a bad type)
Haan I think it’s better to let go now!
Exactly
You are correct, maybe available for him all the time
Don’t worry
You will get someone who deserves you n you deserve him…
Nope. Let it be.
