So, I recently found out that I am asexual. And I already have a boyfriend, but we havenât consummated our relationship. I know he wants to get intimate with me, and here I am. I cannot.
I understand his needs. But I cannot help it that I am a nut case now. It is already difficult to come out in public. And when you already have a relationship, things become exhausting.
I have no idea what to do now.
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Have talk with him, explain him how your asexuality works hi probably understands it and if he doesnât you have to make some harsh choices Iâm sorry to say this but you have to do this.
I think people donât have the knowledge of asexuality and they will think that youâre just faking it for whatever reason.
And yeah if he understands your problem marry himđ
Thatâs what hurts. People think this is a disease that can be cured if you go see a therapist. The problem is with them.
Yes, have to make harsh decisions. đ¸ Thank you so much for understanding.
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Itâs okay i just hope you find someone who can understand this situation of yours and be happy with it.
