So I need advice guys …
I dated a guy for about 4 years but due to some issues i decided to breakup but now this thought is always haunting me what will happen if he will use my private images as a revenge.
P.S. he is a sweet guy but my overthinking problem is constantly haunting me with this thought.
What should I do ?
Akshay C @axy
I am sorry you had to break up. I have never been a relationship to give you any advice… But I would suggest you to speak to him and ask him to delete your images, since you said he is a nice guy…
I don’t want to hurt his feelings too as I said he is not that accepting of our breakup and what if he will use those images to keep me with him.
Though he is a sweet guy but everyone has a obsessive side and i don’t want to give him the idea.
Or am I overthinking the stuff?
Akshay C @axy
Well that is toxic on his side, not to respect your decision. At this point, all I can think of is that make him understand why thinks won’t workout according to you and have a mature discussion on this… hear him out why he think the relationship would work and respond accordingly…
It could also be that your overthinking but God forbid that he doesn’t use those images
Thnx for your advice…i will try that
Thnx buddy for hearing me out
Akshay C @axy
We are here for each other… I was glad I was of some help
First of all avoid sending Pvt images at any cost🤦🏻♂️ doesn’t matter how much you have trust on him… You should talk to him or else forget it… If he’s a nice guy he never misuse it Don’t worry…
I know what I did was a big mistake I was wondering of that happily ever after i didn’t even think about this situation.
You’re overthinking nice/sweet guy never misuse it… Don’t give him any idea/hint. Atmost he will just keep them in his phone but Don’t misuse it.
Okay …thnx for your words it really means a lot as I need someone else to say these words .
It meant a lot.
No worries, it’s not a big issue tbh if he has nice/sweet nature… Just don’t think abt it now.
After a breakup a man’s first responsibility is to delete the private pictures of his ex and if u asked him to delete he must have deleted them . If you don’t believe him u should just ask him politely once again and trust him on his words . Also u guys had 4 years of relationship for that much of time spend together he will delete if he is a genuine person.
I guess I will put my trust in our 4 year of relationship …thnx for your advice friend
Your welcome ☺️
