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Anonymous

So I met this guy ( we are family friends and come from the community). We are both 28 and successful in our respective careers. He overall seemed like a cool guy to date but he is a narcissist, once I didn’t praise his picture and he unfollowed me on Instagram and removed me from his Instagram, to which I didn’t pay any attention later he called and said, you could’ve at least called. Fast forward: He confessed his love on 31 St December year ending. And I didn’t say it because I didn’t feel it, but he was like why aren’t you feeling it ? To which I told him ; i love you is something very serious, i will say it the day I will feel it. Later we had a fight about how he thinks I am not giving him any time, for which I apologised but he said some awful things in anger. After which we stopped talking but now he keeps blocking and unblocking me on Instagram. This was playing with my mind and I blocked him everywhere. WhatsApp and Instagram but now I kinda miss him, what should I do ?

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You @mumblemee_2

I think You should let him go. I don’t think he is ever going to change. I know it’s hard to resist sometimes when we miss them but once you gave up you are going to live in a same circle all over again. So when you miss them too much remember how badly they treat you or said things in anger. Because when someone is angry they show their true self. But at the end it’s up to you. Think more before you take any decision

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Anonymous

There were good moments too, he never let me sleep without eating food on time, had a cute behaviour towards me overall. What I am confused about is that ’ is this mistake forgivable '. Is his anger towards me even after I apologised forgivable?

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Anonymous

There are always going to be good moments but the things they said in anger are not going to get out of your mind. You will start to lose interest in them. Even after they said sorry they will keep repeating the same mistakes. Over the time they sorry wouldn’t mean anything to you because you know they will do it again

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Anonymous

You shouldn’t care about his existence

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Anonymous

Pls leave him such people never change. That narcissist behavior is a big red flag

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Anonymous

You don’t love him …but miss him…
Question yourself : Why you even miss him??

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