So I met a guy on a dating app I was just there to explore nothing much.
I met this guy and he’s nice and our vibe matched we connected on other apps nd then we decided to meet sort of date and he was so nice to me he holded my hand nd I felt good that day.
After that we talked a lot nd we met again nd he did all cute little romantic things nd me being bollywood lover I fell for all those things but after 1 day or two he said he still have feelings for his ex and I was like are you kidding why you did all those things when you still have feelings for your ex he said he was just ignoring his feelings but he just can’t do it anymore his break up was pretty recent though and I didn’t knew that he broke up like 2 weeks before meeting me on dating app so I was like ok it happens nd I started liking him and initially it felt like he liked me too but idk what happened he said he can’t commit anything nd after some days I said okay let’s not talk I can’t just live with it pretending to be your friend he was like okay if you want this let’s do it but after some days I couldn’t resist myself to text him I texted him and I talk to him but it’s not the same like before and I’m still somewhere in hope that he’ll come back to me someday, so what should I do? Do I stop talking to him or just go with the flow? I also don’t understand if his ex is really the reason he started distancing me?
You dont seem to be wanting anything casual. So why are you making yourself available to him so casually?
He’s being so nice to me and he genuinely seemed like a nice guy
But he is confused right now. Hasn’t properly moved on. May be if he thinks the same about you as you do about him, he’ll move on and text you again.
We do talk like now but he don’t feel the same for me the way I feel for him
That’s the worst place to be in. You’re gonna hurt yourself.
Do I stop talking to him?
Dont ghost him. Just tell him that your expectations from the relationship are different than his and it doesn’t seem like he can hold up to them right now. So you’d rather keep your distance from now. And then stop talking.
Yeah will try to do that thankyou!!😊
Nusrat @vaishnavi00118
You should go with the flow but dont do anything romantic or talk about that type of feeling you have with him. Also let him give the chance to text you, call you. If he likes you he will contact you. Don’t worry go with the flow but don’t expect anything from him because expectation hurts.
Yes I’m trying to do that only, we do talk but like friends and he’s the one who text me first and also working on that expectation part let’s see what happens
