Many people think as me ig just make a move and let him confess first because of your experience with boys you can be in pain again and in the end you'll think it was your fault so it's better to just notice and wait.

Booze and nudes at the age of 16, really? Like I have started earning still it takes 10times of thinking to buy a new earphones!!! :@

Crush

I miss my ex 💔 stupid reality

Breakup

Ask him/her

Do you still miss your ex

3am Thoughts

Confused;
I am a 27 year old girl, I have a friend who I know from past several years but due to some reasons we were not in contact for very long, but 4 months ago he texted me and we connected again. He is going through a break-up, and has no job in this pandemic. As a friend I am there for him to listen to him, support him when needed, we had a liking for each other but due to some circumstances in the past we didn't move further with it. He asked me to give it a try this time, we dated for 2 weeks but then he said he doesn't think he can put in any efforts to take the relationship forward. We ended the dating and became friends again, I was ok for sometime, he is very clear on his thoughts but it is draining me to think I am unworthy of someone's efforts. And should I even be friends with him? because I feel at times he ghosts me when he doesn't need emotional support. It is very confusing and I don't know how to move ahead.

Frustration

my boyfriend keeps trying to talk to me and motivate me but I just don't feel good anymore with myself, I don't feel anything in life anymore
He and I don't get much time to talk cuz we've work to do, I feel like I'm pushing him away even though I really love him
I told him that I'm the problem and I'm depressed and I don't want to hurt him cuz ik I'm not treating him nice and I'm not able to show the love that I have for him 
I am scared if he feels unloved, I don't want to hurt him and I push him away because I feel like I'm hurting him 
does that make sense? ugh 

Long Distance Relationship

#5..........Days went by or maybe weeks I didn't really keep a track of it. But all the while I felt very confused. I was talking to the guy (let's name him Mr. X) with the face of another. Though I stopped talking to Mr. X but I kept looking at those pictures and couldn't get them out of my head. Gradually I became curious to know who the guy was in those pictures ? What's his name ? How his voice sounds like ? Personally I'm someone who kinda gets attracted to men who have a nice voice. So I like any other girl with her expert FBI skills went on a hunt for this man. And yep...after a day or two I indeed found him out. Now that I found him and also know his name (Let's say Mr. A)  I was again stuck at the question - How do I approach him ? Being a introvert girl, approaching or initiating a conversation with a guy gives me severe anxiety. I backed off a bit just to think. Millions of thoughts ran through my mind but I couldn't gather the courage to approach him. One night, I was overthinking as usual over this matter and within an impulse I sent him a follow request on Instagram and just thought to myself that I'll initiate conversation later, first I need to atleast be on his following list and get a glimpse of what kinda guy he is from his activities..........(to be continued) 



Extremely sad and disappointed. I think I was in an abusive relationship, engaged and living together for 5 years almost. So many travels, adventures, day to day loving moments and commitments, we really were best friends. But he had a terrible temper. In the end, the temper got the relationship but I just discovered he probably was cheating on me for 2 years. He really pretended or appeared to be honest, loyal, and really had a strong stand against cheating partners. Terrible temper, but never did I imagine he would be a liar and cheater. To this moment he doesn’t know I found out and is still telling my friends he is heartbroken, misses me and loves me. Just “the relationship couldn’t go on like that”. He told me through message, after 2 weeks of no contact, that if I ever want to go back but now lovingly and mentally healed he would be where he always is…..he kicked me out, I didn’t even leave on my terms. 

Boyfriend

I am very nervous and confused. I am not good at making good decisions and this one is Life decision. So How do you decide as 'he is the one'?


 As Today came the day finally, I have to talk to this guy, my family found suitable for me. It'll be a v ideo ca ll as he is working in another country. I was avoiding the topic of marriage n all, but as typical Indian family, my one also wants me to marry at the right age, and now is the right time acc to them, as I am working since 2 yrs now. But me is very unsure of my life Only, let be the "marriage"


I never wanted to marry, even I told them I want to live with them only, nobody else, they also know I can't. Although I live in another city for my work, but my family's home is my home. I don't have a good paying job too, and I want to focus on my career only now as well as on self-growth and healing and change my life as I was in depress ion. 

I have always lived alone, no friends, and never been in relationship. Ik there would be problems in my relationship.  Idk even what to talk to this guy. My father talked with him on vid eo c all first, he liked him, he found him nice and understanding one n all, so now my family and me going to talk to him. Idk even why and what do I talk and how to decide he is the one and he must be having his expectations as well😐







Marriage

I m a very selfish person whenever it comes to my feelings....I always have backup for everything that would hurt me in future....because i know I can't handle the feeling of getting hurt......today I broke up with my bf the reason is that we both bring out worst in us....individually we are good person but together we are worst.....he says that we should try and not give up so easily but this would be 3rd time to patchup and nothing changes so I don't feel like continuing the relationship as it will hurt us both in future.....am I doing the right thing? I m so confused because I don't know whether I m in love with him or I m attached to him?.....am I doing something worst with him?

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